We think the language is to express yourself to get your voice heard. Is that true?

    Of course, that is the basis of the its function. What is more is to bridge the emotion closer, we talk things and often neglect the attitudes hidden behind, that is the key factor lead to how successful the conversation would be. Based on that, you will decide how close you two will be.

    In chinese language, we hear a lot of "but" or "if", yes, you feel a little bit of negative inside, like it only emphasises the supplement and make the light of the positive side. With some extreme example, the speakers forced to be in the furious battle and aweful atmosphere around the speaker.

   I prefer the western language on this condition. Talk to me, the three words express the regard to speaker and equal to discuss the problem conscientiously, with this kind of good posture that is why the result is more compromising.

    So the language is a tool, please use it with wisdom.