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My friend left a comment on my Chinese diary, which me so awkard & sad, but it really make me have a serious lesson.
She said," You 好烦, you like to take every little thing into a big one, then told it to me time by time, sometimes I can't endure it, but I don't know how to tell you, I worry to hurt your heart."
You can't imagine how awkard I feel when I read such comment, I don't know my chatter is made some one hate me, and even I am not aware of such cruel truth, as I always think that there is a friend know and understand my heart, I can tell her everything which happen to myself, both happy & sad. However, I never seeing about that if she have the same feeling as me, I am too selfish, just want to share, and ignore the desire of others.
I have to make a self-reflection, then I send a reply message to my friend, " dear, thank you for your reminder, I want to say sorry for my prevenient action, I don't know that will bother you, I will control myself, never do such foolish things again, if I do it once more, pls tell me face by face, though I will be awkard, I will remember I my fault deeply. Tks again!"
Now I present this circs here, I hope all of you help to supervise me, if I always chatter one thing, pls blame me sternly, I have to correct this fault. Thank you first!
Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply Angela_smile
- Maybe it is not your fault. You just want to release. But it can't be always like that. Everyone want to hear the happy things from you, and see your smile.
- Reply ahm718
- Aye, I dare say you were overscrupulous. It's annoying that you are also considering whether something is wrong. I suggest you to ignore something sometimes.
- Reply yushanger
- just go by yourselves. Take the word in the heart deeply.We will grow up with all cruel words.
- Reply shawle
- If she told you just as what it showed in this blog,
I think she couldn't be a qualified friend of you.
A friend who couldn't go shares with you is not a real friend.
It's not your fault,but you can try to be less sensitive next time,I think.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- Angela_smile: Maybe it is not your fault. You just want to release. But it can't be always like that. Everyone want to hear the happy things from you, and see yourI know, so I try to keep my mouth closed when I want to say something meaningless.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- ahm718: Aye, I dare say you were overscrupulous. It's annoying that you are also considering whether something is wrong. I suggest you to ignore something somSometimes I can't control my mouth, just like my mind, then I don't know that is wrong.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- shawle: If she told you just as what it showed in this blog,If you were her, I think you will do the same thing, sometimes I hate myself too, but I believe if I want I can change it.
I think she couldn't be a qualified friend of you.
A friend who couldn't go shares with you is no
- Reply Sally_Fan
- yushanger: just go by yourselves. Take the word in the heart deeply.We will grow up with all cruel words.Um, we need face the truth, then we will grow up.
