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The older said this is a good year for marriage, as it have 2 spring begins(立春). I don't know if it is true or not, but each month of this year, there is at lease 2 friends have wedding around me. For time's limited, I just choose to take part in someone's wedding, and send the best wishes by phone/email to the others. Anyway, I am really happy see all of them have a sweet family from now on.
When my friends marry one by one, we can have time to play with each other is fewer and fewer. I have to think of such a phenomenon, we can't satisfy the single life any more, both of our relatives and our married friends become care about our sentiment, they always change kinds of method to persuade us to find a BF/GF, and sometimes they even tell us that it's time to have a family in your ages. All above, it often make me puzzle. Sometimes, I ask myself that" Am I really old now?" I don't want to admit, but maybe it's a truth, a little sad, isn't it?
Post comment Comment (14 replies)
- Reply shawle
- There is a baby in your heart,I think.
Actually,there is a baby in everyone's heart.
If we change our point of view,old means mature,doesn't it?
May you happy no matter you're single or double at present.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- shawle: There is a baby in your heart,I think.You are right, keeping a young heart, it's more important.
Actually,there is a baby in everyone's heart.
If we change our point of view,old means mature,doesn't it?
May
- Reply laoshutiqin
- hehe i think i am young
- Reply lingering
- there is a saying,"time is bossy which can deprive of our innocence."Ah,just be happy, the good things waiting for you.
- Reply sddzzqq
- it is the marriage time for 80's. but it is not easy for singles to get a partner. besides is your wage enough to attend the wedding party?
- Reply wildgrass
- If you don't want a family, let nature take its course.
in fact, it is perfect having a family.
- Reply liudongming
- Everyone has such experiences.this is the second stage of our lives.the first stage is that everyone prefre life of bachelor.but latterly,you will find they betral their promise one by one.If you have patience.you will find you are the only one left in realm of single life.But before the shift of life comes,we should know who is worthy of our contribution to accompany in a life.or,reverse shift will come soon.a lot of spouses divorce quickly,this is not a boon,this is a somewhat tragedy.So,like you,a person with his or her patience in organizing a family is reasonable.Lonely by happy,this is my wish.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- lingering: there is a saying,"time is bossy which can deprive of our innocence."Ah,just be happy, the good things waiting for you.Um, that's truth, if we can't look ahead by ourself, no one can help you.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- sddzzqq: it is the marriage time for 80's. but it is not easy for singles to get a partner. besides is your wage enough to attend the wedding party?Hehe, that's the problem, I already did not give my mother alimony several months, just for the wedding party.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- wildgrass: If you don't want a family, let nature take its course.Maybe I can't believe myself to deal in a family, as I just like a child in my eyes, even I can't care myself, how to care a family.
in fact, it is perfect having a family.
- Reply Sally_Fan
- ahm718: Don't worry about it. I do think you're still young ~ Huh...Hehe, thank you, I hope so.
