What are the qualities of a good friend ?why good friendship is so difficult to find in our society ? and what is the definition of “ture friend” and how to become a ture firend ? who is your best friend ? Did you ever ask about yourself  about these question ? we all have friends ,but not every one is our true friend ,friendship is so important to us ,we cannot live without friend as we cannot leave air atmosphere .

Several years ago ,these one guy have came into my life and taught me a life lesson and changed my own view toward my life , I really appreciate him to teach me so much knowledge and let me realize real friend give sincerity and mutual trust ,respect and understanding and support and inspiration to each other ,give me encouragement to go ahead all the time as old saying goes “a friend in need is a friend indeed”, so real friendships are able to stand up to any serious test .

We met each other on the English website ,cause both of us are interesting in English ,in that time , he just prepared his postgraduate qualifying examination and kept learn some English lesson and vocabularies on these website ,sometime we blathered about trivial things and chatting with some funny experience about our own life , he is a good listener and have excellent memories cause he always can remember every word I said before ,sometime I just forgot what I’ve said before ,instead he would knock my head to remind the things; also we are not worried courtesies ,when I chat with him , I never worry about what he will think cause I know he understand me ,we talk every things without any worried about exposing ourselves ,when I need help ,he just come forward to help without any request and be with me in need without showing it or expecting anything in return. Last year I needed to buy special subject books ,he spent all night to search for a lot of websites and download materials for me ;he always support me and never make a excuse whenever I need him to help ;meanwhile ,in my hour of desperation ,when I felt upset and anxious ,he kept quiet and set by my side and hugged me to calm down and told me not to cry and kept silence to company with me ,the true friend always trust you even if the whole world opposes you .

My one true friend

----Germaine

A true friend is always there for you.

A person who will help,

With all your problems.

The one whom you can trust ,

With all your secrets.

And the one who cheer you up

When you are lonely .

That is a friend.

I want to meet .

I don’t know

If he’s a boy or a girl.

But I always believe that I will find

My one true friend.

One time we had different opinions toward one topic of news and we got a heated argument ,we both were insisting our own view with difference position and got very angry to discuss these things ,he just  stopped to talking and lighted a cigarette tried to calm down his temper ,and then gone with slience . the next day he wrote a note for me “you know you really mad at me ,but let us write it on the sand and forget wrong things and unhappy things and get erased it in no time “"i am sorry for hurtting you by wrong words ,let us forget it " I replied "never mind, we're be pals again  " and from then on we were as if nothing had happened.

 The true friend is there for you rain or shine ,a good friend can accepts you who you are ,even when you’re just doing something wrong as being a butthead , in friendship ,he or she will rolls with the punches as you grow  and know how to deal with quirks and faults. They are also patient with you when you make mistakes even big ones and learn how to forgive you when you hurt them ，In other words , they treat you as you’d like to be treated ,you are always blessing ,even when you aren’t at your best,the one just care about you unconditionally .