When compared to any other traditional family two –parent homes , unlike with others friends , I raised on a single parents family , I have a great mother and my older sister ,when I was 3 years old , my father just left to another countries ,and the life was very hard to coupe with in the past , I am my mum hope and dream ,so I should work hard and study hard to capture my dream to make a better life for my mum ,make her to feel happiness in her rest of life .

Tough the life war really hard for us , my mum taught me the best thing from my childhood ,my mum let me know how to be good moral standard and never give up every thing ,never give up our own faith and to be stronger in the life ,my mum regard me as her friend ,and tell me everything although when I was a child , I could not understand much more about real life and social reality ,when I was five year old in nursery school  ,the little friend  just laughed at me cause my father left me and I was living the single parent household , but I didn’t cry in front of them and just felt really hurt and quite upset ,and came back home I always asked my mum where was my dad ? my mum told me my father just went abroad to earn money ,and a lot of time I suffer emotionally and miss that other parent , I think my mum also suffer more than me , I proud of my mom that she’s great mother in the world ,she supported the family by herself and give me unconditional love and never to ask the return and reward ,my mum’s not only a mother but also a father , a woman can be strong enough and never leave the children and never think about to remarry, just put her youth and all of energy to do the business to raise and educate the child for more than 18 years old ,thank for god ,although my father leave me so many year ago , I have a mother she give my life and even all of things ,educating me to be a real person and upright person ,I cant imagine my life without her ,what my world would be like ?

-- a Chinese song

 “ the wine for good sale “

What a familiar sound keep company with me during experienced many year’s trials and hardships

Never need to remember cause never forget

No heaven no earth ,no earth no home,

No home without you ,there is not me

If you never care me and give me a warm living

If you did not protect me what my fate would be

Is you brought me up and accompany to say the first word

Is you give me a home and make you and me to own this.

Although you can’t open your mouth to say a word

You can better understand the black and white real world

Although you can’t express your true feeling

Had paid a dedicated life

In the distance how familiar sound come from

Remind me how kind heart you have

When I can go back to your side

Let me sing that with you

The wine sale well ..the wine sale well …..

 And I grow up when I was about 19 year old ,the fate ruled that I met a man handed with a little boy  ,the man is my father and the boy is his son , he just got married in another country and have a son ,may be he just already forgot this families and have build another family he want , my real father have left when I was 3 year old and never return . I cant imagine how she can accept these fact cause she spent her whole life to waiting for him come back but the result is seem like a joke.

 Thank for my mother ,I don’t know how to express I love her and show how much I appreciate  and respect her and how grateful I am to her ,she have spent whole life time on me and my sister ,and raising our family by herself , thank you , I will hand with you and give you happiness life and better life with all my effort ,never forget your unselfish love .