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The day before yesterday i bought a big red grape Pomelo at the high cost of 50 RMB from a foreign supermarket which is called " YIMARD". it's surprising with me that i hadn't seen such expensive charge merely on one pcs pomelo before.So i decided to get an explaination from the staff who worked for this supermarket:
" Would you kindly explain it why only one pomelo need me to pay almost RMB 50, I'm afraid there is a mistake on the weight? "
" It's normal and correct for the weight and price, because it has the value for its delicious tastes."
"Well, I guess so..."
..........
As long as i return my home, i opened my computer and started to search more information on this kind of pomelo.
As a result, the worker of supermarket didn't failed to deceive me.the only wrong was my self-appointed judge.
The first time i was beat by myself and felt so bad for my mistake.
In fact it is what the life is like , Everything has two opposite aspects to be judged, but sometimes we may reverse the original judgement by our idle and pointless speculation or our current bad emotions. There is no doubt that these judgements are worthless and maybe get rise to so many hurts both on you, your family and your friends. Much like the thing of buying a pomelo from the supermarket.If you judge it by your own standard without any investigation, you will never know its real worth .
On the basic of truth and moral principle, it is enough to narrow the search when we will face new ideal or things.
Writen in ShangHai on OCT 11th,2014
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Post comment Comment (14 replies)
- Reply zhouying2012
- Sure, we known everything has two opposite aspects, but we can't see whole of them. So it's not your fault, din't to beat by yourself. It's no normal.
- Reply COLMAN
- Thank you so much for your comments.
zhouying2012: Sure, we known everything has two opposite aspects, but we can't see whole of them. So it's not your fault, din't to beat by yourself. It's no normal.
For me, I often pay more attention on one thing but not other thing,
so it is necessarily important to learn how to judge other thing that you're not familiar.As you said that it's hard to see the whole of one thing, it's right.
- Reply Nikkii
- When you doubt something, you do some research and investigation and finally get the correct perspective. You even think about it to the level of life, it's introspection that makes people better human beings. So I don't think you have done anything wrong.
And I'm really curious that how's the pomelo tastes?
- Reply xingyue
- Well, I also curious about your findings on internet, as you said "search more information on this kind of pomelo". It is unreasonable to judge something or someone by our personal standards indeed.
- Reply kyle2012
- hah,you must be a foodie.
Nikkii: When you doubt something, you do some research and investigation and finally get the correct perspective. You even think about it to the level of lif ...
- Reply kyle2012
- As the old saying goes that every coin has two sides. we should consider things in every aspects and avoid using language that is simplistically judegemetal. hah,it must be very yumy,i suppose.
- Reply zhouying2012
- Yes, you see! It's hard to see the whole of one thing. We're in the point. So don't judge it easily, but also needn't beat by ourselves once made a judge. Wish you happy everyday!
COLMAN: Thank you so much for your comments.
For me, I often pay more attention on one thing but not other thing,
so it is necessarily important to learn ho ...
- Reply COLMAN
- Thank you for your kind words.
Nikkii: When you doubt something, you do some research and investigation and finally get the correct perspective. You even think about it to the level of lif ...
About the pomelo, it is very nice.O(∩_∩)O~
- Reply COLMAN
- When i had the same curious about the pomelo, so i had to learn through the internet.haha. once getting all the information, you will know its real worth and function .
xingyue: Well, I also curious about your findings on internet, as you said "search more information on this kind of pomelo". It is unreasonable to ju ...
- Reply COLMAN
- Your comment is right. haha, It is absolutely more delicious than other common pomelo fruit
kyle2012: As the old saying goes that every coin has two sides. we should consider things in every aspects and avoid using language that is simplistically judeg ...
- Reply xingyue
- Pomelo seems to be useful in our traditional concepts, even ordinary ones. Well, it's "a big red grape Pomelo", is it grapefruit? I ought to know more details about the function. I like pomelo.
COLMAN: When i had the same curious about the pomelo, so i had to learn through the internet.haha. once getting all the information, you will know its real ...
