My friend said he had different feelings after watching the same flim Love Is Not All Around【十分爱】 for the third time.So I enjoyed this flim with expection,while maybe I had a completely opposed feeling with him .I think all the heroes and heroines are too mean to give each other a chance to understand their loves for themselves even they don’t love them at all.The heroine Qingqing is so selfish that she orders Xiaohu who loves her deeply without conditions to do something that would hurt him and meanwhile she is too devoted to her husband.And the other beautiful girl Abao finally realizes that she doesn't find true love as she doesn’t love others from the bottom of her heart.And the end is stagy ,although Dali finds his true love ,he cheats two girls.After watching the film ,I felt it lacking realism.It’s no wonder that they find their true love and will cherish each other ,while they would have lots of conflict and many other lies may be created.So I think they would be lovers rather than couples.Reality could force them to be apart. Apart from these ,I think the penance of Abao is very profound----I know how to make others love me ,but when they love me I feel repulsion,and I just love myself all the time while ingore others’ feelings.

Maybe I’m just too childish to understand love.I hope the readers can share your opinions with me.