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These days I feel much confused.I have worked as a teacher for five years since I graduated from college.But I must admit that I am not a good teacher.Sometimes I even suspect whether the job is fit for me or not.What troubled me most is that I can't go along well with other colleagues.Maybe I am a little introvert and stubborn.You know the teacher should be an outgoing person and talktive.However, I am not.On the other hand, I teach in a vacational high school. The students here are very naughty.They don't study hard,sleep in the class,fight with each other,contradict the teacher and so on.All of these make me headache and I have no way to solve the problems.In one word, as a teacher, I can not communicate well with other teachers and students. I am a failure.Although I got the TEM8 Certificate, it is just a paper for me.What's a pity. The new term is around the corner and I will come back to school to face the reality.What should I do, my friends?
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- Reply sddzzqq
- Dear, I don't think it is the problem about education. The point is that you are not used to the society rather than the job as a teacher. If could not change the way and mind to communacate with the society, you may come across the same or other problems when playing other roles.
- Reply moli
- I don't think you are a loser.
As a teacher, reading some books about the psychology of the students would help solve the problems you mentioned in the blog.
- Reply sunnyv
- It is not really your problem. Handling people and socialising is getting more and more complicated and confusing. Handle a few people is hard enough and you are handling so many at one time. Teaching is one of the jobs which do not give you satisfying returns immdiately and also one of the jobs which is most frustrating. Your satisfaction comes when the students graduate and move on. Even if you change your job to office worker you still have to face tiring relationships, gossip, back stabbing and senseless competition. Since you have been in this job for so long, you already have experience, so you can try to tone down your temper, be softer in dealing with people and don't mind the criticism. The task is certainly not an easy one. You are certainly not a failure. Keep going. I salute you !
- Reply wickers
- If you cannot adapt the sckoole life, you'd better change it.But learn how to cimmunicate with others is the neccessary ability.
- Reply betsy
- Treat students and colleagues from your heart. I think all of them will love you if you do so.
- Reply nanncycn
- sunnyv: It is not really your problem. Handling people and socialising is getting more and more complicated and confusing. Handle a few people is hard enoughThank you for your support
- Reply nanncycn
- moli: I don't think you are a loser.Thank you for your suggestion.I will try.
As a teacher, reading some books about the psychology of the students would help solve the problems you mentioned in th
- Reply nanncycn
- wickers: If you cannot adapt the sckoole life, you'd better change it.But learn how to cimmunicate with others is the neccessary ability.yeah, I think I am not good at commnunicating with others,but I have to.
- Reply nanncycn
- sddzzqq: Dear, I don't think it is the problem about education. The point is that you are not used to the society rather than the job as a teacher. If could nMaybe I should try my best to change my character,though it's difficult for me to do it.
- Reply sddzzqq
- nanncycn: Maybe I should try my best to change my character,though it's difficult for me to do it.Keep yourself deeply in the mind. And change the way to show it.
- Reply ly.identity
- Since you have been a teacher for five years, that's a kind of knowledge to you, isn't it? Believe in yourself!
- Reply sayayang
- Wow...you never find out such problem around you until you work as teacher for five years?
1.being humorous during class with students ,just activate the circumstance
2.Communicating with your student in class or after class for subject queries or life
3.With your simle on face , when should be leisure ,when should be strict with ur student,
4.let it be just let it be
5.take up some actions to them when they don't follow you not punish for body or abusing words,but with kind guidelines and ways to show them
6.Some times purposely praise them for what they do unwisely or foolish....
- Reply Casey.Bob
- Different people have different personality and the way people communicate to others，So, do not have to deliberately do something, just go as you like。
- Reply Rain-rain
- You have worked for five years.So i believe you not only have good education background and also have more working experience,you just stick to go on,you will find a new world in the near future.
