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Is that called Predestined relationship?
Several months' battle came to an end,finally I say good bye to him and he said nothing.
We have been together for 2 years with many many disturbances experienced together.I loved him,he loved me better.
But...life always bring us some things that are opposite of what we intended.
Being seperate with each other results from many elements of life.Towards marrige,we should not only consider wheather we love each other,weather we are suitable with each other,but also some economic elements have to be considered with.
I don't wanna him as the richest man in the world,nor do I have so many requirements towards economy on him.But my basic requirements he also can hardly reach.How can I marry a man like this?
Maybe u will think I am a bad girl when u reading this article at this moment.Maybe u will think that he is so poor...
Also some guilty conscience full filled my heart at the begaining,but at the moment before we being apart,I realize that it is not the economic elements that makes such an end,but the lacking of security sense of him on me.
When we were together,I never feel that I was protected by him.Maybe he is too young(2 years younger than me).
...
One day,I took part in a Bachelor Party.Some strange things happend.
He,a mature and steady man,appears into my eye.When the first time I saw him,I have a feeling that this man would be my husband in the future.But it's just a glimpse of feeling.And I thought it is impossible for such a man would like me and love me.That is impossible...
But everything goes the opposite direction.
Several days later,I received a message from him.He learnt all my situation around me and even know how my characteristics are.He said to me"I like u,will u be my lifelong gf?"
I was astonished.
After that he spend a lot of times making chances to meet me and try his best to make me happy.I was moved by him.But still it's during his verifying period.
Is this so called predestined relationship?
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- Reply sunnyv
- You might not love the person nearest to you but somehow you may fall in love with somebody who your can never imagine. That is fate. What is yours is yours. However, love is always sweet in the beginning. You still have to go through the test of time. Even after marriage, you still have to survive the seven years itch. Treasure what you have. Walk the long and winding road of love sincerely and lovingly.
- Reply Daisy123
- sunnyv: You might not love the person nearest to you but somehow you may fall in love with somebody who your can never imagine. That is fate. What is yours isI totally concur what u said.
But for loving things it is really a mistery of life.No one could tell what would happen untill it occured.
And ur points,it seems that you have exprienced a lot?
Sometimes I need friends here in Dio share your idea with me.Cause somewhere else in QQ or Sina Mini blog,a lot of people know me.I dare not to share my feeling with people who r around me.
Anyway,thank u so much my dear.
- Reply sunnyv
- Daisy123: I totally concur what u said.We need to shares our happiness and frustrations with others. The bystanders sometimes see more clear than ourselves. In my times of trouble I would like a trusted friend to help me get through it or at least share the misery.
But for loving things it is really a mistery of life.No one could tell what would happen untill it occured.
And ur point
Yet sometimes it is hard to confide your secrets to friends. You never know whether it would spread far and wide the next day. That is why people keep things in their heart and the pains solidify into permanent misery.
Personally, I have not experienced a lot of pain in love life due to the fact that I have not yet come across someone who I could spend the rest of my life with. No point jumping into an uncertain relationship and hurting myself and others.
Happy pass a day, unhappy we also have to pass the day so why not just live it happily. Let it be.
- Reply Daisy123
- yaping: Fate always like a teaser, you will encounter aonther who more suitable for u！Yes,but the passing course is really hard to go through.
Always some glimpse of pain exsisted deeply in heart.
- Reply Daisy123
- sunnyv: We need to shares our happiness and frustrations with others. The bystanders sometimes see more clear than ourselves. In my times of trouble I would lur words comfort me a lot.
really an expert of living life.But u havent find another part of ur life,how should u know so much of loving things?How should u speak out so phylosophy words to comfort others?
- Reply yaping
- Daisy123: Yes,but the passing course is really hard to go through.But we shouldn't be in bad mood, is not? Plz believe everything will be okay! U can do something to be full, maybe it is a good way for u now, after all love is not everything, everrthing yet is not love, there is a lot of friends around u.
Always some glimpse of pain exsisted deeply in heart.
- Reply huckabee
Love is mysterious and unprepared. Hold tightly while it is still at hand. If it hurts, just let it go...
