i quarreled with one of my best friend. the  root reason is we have different world vaule. she likes to talk about the issuses behind other's back.but i prefer to talk about my life, my dream, and my husband and so on.  sometimes, she will transfer other's ill words about me which make me feel sick. i think everybody has the right to evaluate other's. but i have the choice to observe the right to know how they evaluate me.i really don't want to know the ill word they