In my mind，father is not a so important role in my life，I just thought that he is the one who give me a little careness

some money，and a house let me to live in. I know he is a amiable and interesting man，but just such a father，We are

aloof。

     I really know that the harmoonious relationship between other fathers and daughters is different from ours，We are aloof。So many years，I could not get a single answer for ‘Why’。When he was played cards with brother and sister

 I would  went away from them silently。If he was at home，I won`t speak loudly，I just do everything he asked me to do，whether I wanted or not，I would say nothing。So mang times，I looked the sky，asking myself ：Why？It`s

really not myself！I am a exoscopic and talktive girl，the silent melon is not me！but no answer……

     Since Iwas in perimary school，he was not home for he must went out to find a job，so many years` blank space is hard to fill in，I really know it。I haven`t looked at his face carefully for just one time。But in our life，maybe，always

there are such a moment that we grow up in one night and things changed。That noon I looked him washing，cutting

and cooking the fish，then setting the table and the dishes，then asked me to eat，I said nothing，during I was eatting

he put the apples，mooncakes and other food into my bag to bring to school，after I finished，he said he would sent me to the sation then go back to have lunch，No word……When I sat in the bus，stareding out the window，tears stinging
my eyes，my heart is not stone，it can feel the pain，I saw the white hairs，I saw the man was no longer forceful，I knew that the man is becoming old，Irealized that something instantly put me to another position。the man is my father

he love me 。but his love is so forbearable and silent，It`s my turn to protect ang understand him。