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Gestalt psychology therapy: nine principles let you do things more mature

504 views. 2011-9-21 18:49

Gestalt therapy was  founded by the American psychiatric experts Fred rick  S. pearl, The treatment was aiming at self awareness of the disease to experience and disillusioned,it is a kind of way which  can  cultivate one's morality and raises a gender:

1. Live in the present. Don't always miss the matter of tomorrow, also don't always regret what happened yesterday, and concentrates on the what to do today. Because regret, guilt and sadness can't change the past, will only make the current work  difficult to carry on.

2. Life here.What happened to far away we can do nothing about it, want to know also is not used; It is useless to  know too much  even though u feel helpless. Remember your life is in here, not far away or  somewhere else.

3. Stop guess, face the practice. Many of the disputes and psychological barriers often caused by they have no actual according to "take it for granted" . So,meaningless speculation is not necessary.

4. Stop thinking, just feeling. People tend to neglect  or forget to appreciate the beauty, listen to music, and so on. However "feeling"is  more important than  thinking . No feelings  also won't think, feeling can adjust and enrich your thinking.

5. Accept unpleasant emotions. Pleasant and unpleasant is relative , also may change into each other. So, people should be ready for accepting the unhappy mood.

6. Don't be judged, first and foremost plz publish suggestions.at the first , do not talk about the judge,just  say what do you think of it. out.  Do it like this, you can prevent and avoid unnecessary friction or  conflicts with others , and you can avoid a meaningless worry and anguish.

7. Don't blind worship of idols and authority. Don't blindly attach  with  all the proposed, thus will leading u to lose the  thinking habit independently; Also don't disregard the principles and to succumb to others, and be deprived of the ability to act independently.

8. I am I, responsible for yourself. Don't say what "I if so-and-so, I will succeed", should do it  from your own, and give full play to ur potential, don't complain. To start from me, from now,try to use of ur talents and prepared to do the things.

9. Correctly keep a diary for self assessment of  ur own,put urself in a central location. Everyone in the society has a certain positions, so you have to according to the specific requirements of position, to fulfill your rights and obligations, and if you don't   accord to society recognized and all the common the specification to do, that you will be  accused by the social and others.

Post comment Comment (13 replies)

Reply snowflying 2011-9-21 19:28
wow, i'm a strange one in your major, but reading your this blog, i know the subject so widely to search, it's useful for us each one, especially correct our doing style and thinking style in daily life. if doing things as the above, what a wonderful mind set and mood we human have! how many mental troubles human being will reduce! i think your major just as a mental guidance, we everyone need it actually. so i think whether a phychology searching person always have no troubles in their mind world? whether they can see more widely more far more clear tham the common persons? you are so lucky.
Reply yaping 2011-9-21 19:55
snowflying: wow, i'm a strange one in your major, but reading your this blog, i know the subject so widely to search, it's useful for us each one, especially corr
My old. u are  so  sweet!  ur words are aslo so sweet!!     Actually, these days , my major will do a lot in people's daily life more or less! well, maybe i am a lucky girl hehes...
Reply snowflying 2011-9-21 19:56
yaping: My old. u are  so  sweet!  ur words are aslo so sweet!!     Actually, these days , my major will do a lot in people's daily life more or less! well, m
aha, i feel i seem need something of your major
Reply susiee 2011-9-21 20:14
We live in such a busy and competitive society which requires us to adjust ourselves according to the changeable situations.And you advices are very useful.
Reply yaping 2011-9-21 20:37
snowflying: aha, i feel i seem need something of your major
Heheh...  whenever waitting for u! but  I am not well good at it for now~
Reply yaping 2011-9-21 20:39
susiee: We live in such a busy and competitive society which requires us to adjust ourselves according to the changeable situations.And you advices are very u
Thank full~  hehes...
Reply bigcat 2011-9-22 10:36
good of thinking,useful and helpful,many of us knew those i think,but less of us could do it.
Reply yaping 2011-9-22 10:58
bigcat: good of thinking,useful and helpful,many of us knew those i think,but less of us could do it.
Hehes...
Reply MRyang 2011-9-22 21:39
thank you for share~
Reply yaping 2011-9-22 22:18
MRyang: thank you for share~
hehes... ...
Reply Gllen 2011-9-25 17:21
thats very useful, i think i will be more mature。aha~~
Reply yaping 2011-9-25 21:21
Gllen: thats very useful, i think i will be more mature。aha~~
Reply akxe 2011-11-2 22:29
not bad words!

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