I had a farewell party with a few fore-colleagues of kingbase last Friday. The former general manager hyuan, who is respected by most of people around him, would immigrated to USA in a short while.
I had worked in kingbase just for 1 year. Most of these friends were there for more than 3 years, so they had more emotion with kingbase. most topics during the supper were around the company and the coworkers. it was my first job after university graduation, both the job and the colleagues were much meaningful to me. hyuan is the person who i respect most. he is integrity, brilliant and genuine, at the same time, he is humour-not the general humour-a kind of smart.
i still remeber a few things between us clearly. when i decided to resign from kingbase, hyuan send me a long email which was unexpected. he said he was apologied that he had not shown more concern to me and ignored my growth during my first job. he also gave me much suggestion on my career development. you couldn't image how moved i was,he was not even my direct-leader. actually we don't have much contact after my left. several time we talked for a while through msn, and nearly every time he didn't happy. it seems he had a lot of sorrow and  frustration, and most of time i couldn't comfort him and just said some weak words. in these years, he lost his brother and mother successively and meanwhile he is a heavy affectionate person.
sometime i guess that everyone couldn't be perfect, everyone couldn't have everything. career, love, family, relatives, health, beauty, wealth, we can only hold some of them.  could we hold them which we think are most important?