My best colleague is gonna resign her job and she seeks the new job from internet these days, in fact, the idea of resignation has come to her last year, and I know the reason why she chose resignation. On the one hand, she ever told me she was not happy at work in our company and found it hard to get along with some other colleagues, and in cooperation with them she felt wronged to tear sometimes. On the other hand, she and her lover work and live far away from each other, which cause they have to rent two houses and pay about 4000RMB for the house rent every month,
She and I are not only colleagues,but also bosom friend, I tend to blame myself for I cannot find the suitable words to comfort her when I see tears on her face. I just said to her let those unpleasant things go, it is not necessary to think of them more and put them in heart, as for these we can hardly be avoided when getting along with other persons at work.
I am really not willing to see her leave, thus I try to persuade her to change mind.Sometimes I even feel I am selfish for my behavior...