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Hate or Not Hate
A couple of days ago, I went home do some things personally.
I went to visit grandma with my father, you know, I could not be there alone. there are so many graves there.
" We had visited all ancestors at your grandpa's birthday, we may just brun some money paper and talk to her, she will bless you all." dad said. "grandpa's birthday? when? " I was surprised said. " almost ten days ago! " I forgot grandpa's birthday totally. actually, I don't care when is his birthday. I have hated him since grandpa got married again when my poor grandma died. there is no need to memorize his birthday, I know I will speechless if I face him even give a phone call.
Be honest, to grandpa's past, I have hated, now, I confused that I hate him like before or I just forget to hate him, sometimes I forgot I have a grandpa. so, seems I am a hater, always do keep others bad impression in mind. am I really a that kind of person? I don't want to like that. eventually I figure out what I should put away. No matter what kind of person he was, now, he just a old man getting old gradually. I was so stupid, family is family, will never ever change.
No matter how deep the hated was, how strong it was, it would fade away with time flies. these memories would be worn down too. it flied away early in chill wind, just did not notice. maybe I just don't put my face and principle aside to call "grandpa" or to greet " how are you?"
Something was gone, do not want to sigh " I have lost more some precious thing than before".
Just cherish what we have, not hate.
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Post comment Comment (9 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- You seem to be an unforgiving person. It is not really good for you to be so hateful. Your granpa needs a companion in his old age and having nobody beside him at old age is hard for him. Who wants to be alone? He would not re-marry if your grandma did not pass away. He did not do anything unforgivable. As you said, family is family, he is your grandpa, so forgive him. Wish you a happy life.
- Reply touringchina
- passing through the lane with many graves along sides must be very exciting, it is just like watching a thrilling movies.
- Reply O'Bright
- sunnyv: You seem to be an unforgiving person. It is not really good for you to be so hateful. Your granpa needs a companion in his old age and having nobody bI know that. I couldn't accept that he was so hurry, just after the funeral more than 10 days, he could forget the so many years of couples relationship so soon. that was not easy acceptable to me.
now, I understand him completely. he is old, we are have less and less time together. I don't want to regret after lose. thank you so much.
- Reply O'Bright
- Ruby3: it's a happy ending,not bad,as you said'Just cherish what we have, not hate.'Right, suddenly, I realize that he is old, how long can I call him grandpa? I don't want to regret for what I missed some precious things. thank you.
- Reply O'Bright
- touringchina: passing through the lane with many graves along sides must be very exciting, it is just like watching a thrilling movies.It's too bad, I don't like watching thrilling movies at all. you must really enjoy that feeling very much.
- Reply touringchina
- O'Bright: It's too bad, I don't like watching thrilling movies at all. you must really enjoy that feeling very much.NEGATIVE
