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It Embarrassed Me.
How embarrassed I am today!
When I stood there facing all of students, I speechless, I forgot all of what I prepare for saying, nothing came to my mind. I was too nervous to know what I should say. then that, I stumbled through the preparedness. It's awful. it's really a little unacceptable.
My eloquence is so bad, I always know that. it's just more sharper than before and it's breaking my heart. I realized how ignorant I am, how lacking of knowledge and experience.
Acutually, I should appreciate this experience of today, it make me see clearly my weakness, and how serious my weakness is. just like I got sick so long, however, I could not find it and realize its ponderance. Although today's experience embarrassed me, exposed my all weakness in front of everyone. I felt that I am shamed to see everybody, that makes me very upset. as a matter of fact, from another angle to think, may be it's a good thing for me. I will make up it gradually.
Some one told me everyone has weakness, do not take it so serious, the most important is how to make up it and keep a ordinary state of mind. that's right, I should do that.
Just forget today.
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- Reply sunnyv
- This looks like a case of nervousness, not your ability. Everyone has stage fright. It is not as bad as you think. Don't let this affect you. Failure is the mother of success. Everyone has to go through failures and disappointment. Yes, just forget this incident and try to do better next time.
- Reply kinzhang
don't take failure for granted,yet also don't suspect your ability as long as you try your best on your own...practice makes perfect
- Reply rich
- it's just natural to have such an experience. we're all humans, which means we are not perfect and will all make mistakes. however, as time goes on, generally we will get mature and better.
- Reply O'Bright
- sunnyv: This looks like a case of nervousness, not your ability. Everyone has stage fright. It is not as bad as you think. Don't let this affect you. FailureYes, I also think so. I should find some ways to enhance my eloquence and be more courage to face this kind of things. I was a completist, some one told me that I was a human not a god, that's right, I am trying to change, to accept all of no perfection, just like today. thank you so much for your kindly words.
- Reply O'Bright
- kinzhang:Yes, I also believe that practice makes perfect. everyone needs it.don't take failure for granted,yet also don't suspect your ability as long as you try your best on your own...practice makes perfect
thank you so much, I figure out this thing, feel much better now.
- Reply O'Bright
- rich: it's just natural to have such an experience. we're all humans, which means we are not perfect and will all make mistakes. however, as time goes on, gRight, we are all humans not perfect, some one told me similar words. a human can pursue better instead of perfect, cause no one knows what exactly perfection is. I am not good at expressing, friend says that it's caused by lacking of experience and practice, when you experienced more, you know how to say good words naturally. then I will get mature and better.
thank you very much.
- Reply tang199091
- i met the same situation when i got to college and had the speech first time. it was really a hard time while i stood on the dais. but a week later i totally forgot it. now you remind me of the incident but i think it nthing serious.maybe you too.
- Reply obluevivi
- oh my god! So far, i just talk with my tutor in english on the phone. I never had a formal speech in front of others and i never communicated with others over 3 sentences. How can i do if i were in this situation? I must be tensioned almost to the breaking point with my mind went blank~~~
- Reply O'Bright
- tang199091: i met the same situation when i got to college and had the speech first time. it was really a hard time while i stood on the dais. but a week later iYes, I have forgotten it. it seems that everyone has that kind of experience, only go through those we will be more brave and mature. just forget those incidents, do not let them effect us.
thank you.
- Reply O'Bright
- obluevivi: oh my god! So far, i just talk with my tutor in english on the phone. I never had a formal speech in front of others and i never communicated with othActually, me too. that make me feel I am a coward, maybe that's a essential step of growing up. we should get up the courage to face all incident, I am trying to change what I was, I can , you can.
- Reply touringchina
- you gained much experience from this embarrassing speech. good for your improvement in the days to come.
