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Father and I

480 views. 2010-11-7 22:33

All the time, I envy those girls who have close relationship with their dads. They could talk everything all about; they could make jokes with each other; they could go shopping together and so on.

I am not that one;however,hoping to enhance my relationship with my father as soon as possible. I clearly remembered in my childhood when my dad was too busy to support my family, we almost have no chance to talk. Besides, I was too shy, which made me dare not to speak with him farther. But I worship him from my bottom of my heart, for he was lame owing to poliomyelitis, yet he can successfully support our family. Even though we rarely talk, action speaks louder than words. I was fully influenced by his behaviors, which contributed to shaping my personality.  

Still, there must be some misunderstanding between us. One day, my mom said to me: your dad thought you were not concerned about him, you seldom speak with him. I was totally awakened at hearing these words. I learnt that my dad didn’t sense my deep feeling. So from then on, I began to phone him very often. But we just speak for several minutes. I have no ideas. Perhaps we have no common interest and language about life.

Anyway, I hope my dad could understand me, I love him forever!

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply sunnyv 2010-11-7 23:12
Not everyone can talk so easily. Your dad needs a lot of initiative from you before he really believe that you care about him like father and daughter, so you will have to show a lot of love and care, like telling him your sad experience and happy experience, buy some clothes for him for winter, buy some food he like and share with him. Don't be disappointed if he should you coldness and soon he will realise that you really care about him. You are a good daughter and the concern about your dad mentioned here shows you are caring daughter. Your dad is lucky to have a daughter like you. Good luck dear.
Reply Angela_smile 2010-11-8 09:43
The same feeling to me. But I believe they can feel our care. We really care about them from our deeply heart.
Reply jollity2002 2010-11-8 16:36
Try to communicate more with your dad and make the relationship be more closer!
Reply redapple2 2010-11-8 19:57
sunnyv: Not everyone can talk so easily. Your dad needs a lot of initiative from you before he really believe that you care about him like father and daughter
thank you for your advice, sunny. I am trying to do that.
Reply redapple2 2010-11-8 19:58
Angela_smile: The same feeling to me. But I believe they can feel our care. We really care about them from our deeply heart.
we are just not good at expressing our love and affection to them.But we love them,that's for sure.
Reply redapple2 2010-11-8 19:59
jollity2002: Try to communicate more with your dad and make the relationship be more closer!
yeah,communication is the best bridge to eliminate misunderstandings and show our affection to them.
Reply Angela_smile 2010-11-9 09:11
redapple2: we are just not good at expressing our love and affection to them.But we love them,that's for sure.
Yeah.
Reply jollity2002 2010-11-9 11:27
redapple2: yeah,communication is the best bridge to eliminate misunderstandings and show our affection to them.
Yes!Have a good communication!
Reply rich 2011-1-4 08:38
i used to be on bad terms with my dad. however, as time went on, i gradually undertood how hard being a father could be. and then i told myself i should never make him angry again, whatever. one thing we should know is that paternal love is different from maternal love.
Reply heai88 2011-11-2 16:35
I have same feelings as you, the relationship between father and me is always bothered me all the time, we don't have much to talk either, and I always envy those person who have good relationship with their parents.
Reply heai88 2011-11-2 16:38
IN addition, seems that you are wrong here : I clearly remembered in my childhood when my dad was too busy to support my family, --> too...to is a negative idiom, right?

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