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Love seems too far away from me.
Long ago, I fell in love with a boy. But, just on one side. At that time, the world's colors faded away, only him in my eyes. I knew everything about him, when he laughed, when he played football with friends, when he went home by bicycle and so on. I used to locate his position as soon as possible wherever and whenever. I had done this for about eight years.
Now I realize that maybe in the last three years there was no love for him, just been used to his existence. As a result, when I went to university- we were in two different cities- I lost my mind. I didn't know who to care about. There was little interest for me to go to canteen, playground, classroom or any other places. I couldn't find the familiar figure in the rest of my life. WE WERE REALLY SEPARATED!
It took me about three years to get used to myself. Now I can go everywhere all alone without missing anyone. However, the lonely spirit world has been built up in my heart. It's really difficult for me to light up the passion of my life. I know I should create a better life for my own. I understand that I need to smile from my heart. I try to find other interest like Yoga, English to embellishment color of my life.
I'm so blessed to come across my dear friend, Vivian. Over the years, I have been with her. We do everything together, studing, shopping, etc. However, she choose to go abroad for further study and I will stay in Beijing. There is a little time left for us to spend together. We cherish every moment with each other.
What is love? I really don't understand it. My friendship has saved me in the half way after all. I really appreciate it. What's more, I have decided to have a piece of action in my postgraduate life. Now what I need to do is reprogram myself to see the good in me. Supporting me, are you?
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- Reply sedgehead
- I love the blog and the photo. When we are young (and when we are old) we find new things in our lives. As one friend told me, "You can never go home." Why? Things change. The old you no longer exists. You are older and more mature and your friend have changed too. The best thing to do is to not worry too much about the past and to enjoy the present. Sometimes people change. Sometimes life changes them. What is certain is that things will change. The only thing that remains the same is that things keep changing! Enjoy it!
- Reply tangmiao
- About love,as a grade two boy of a scientific and technological university,I seem to be able to say just a little bit words.Whenas,what I would
like to say is adapt your life to the real life and find out your interest
in something around the circumstance.Enjoy the life,enjoy your life.
- Reply qiulong
- yeah,you are so strong!you should understand someone once is lost including boy friend ,you shouldn't depression ,hopes in your life is foreward !!!
- Reply bluebird
- I agree with Sedgehead that "the only thing that remains the same is that things keep changing." Cherish your present life and friendship; let the past love be a flower in memory, rather than a burden in life-path.
- Reply Lirika
- sedgehead: I love the blog and the photo. When we are young (and when we are old) we find new things in our lives. As one friend told me, "You can never gI'm so glad you love it.
You're right. What we should do is to look forward. Nothing remains the same for long. WE SHOULD ENJOY IT!
- Reply Lirika
- tangmiao: About love,as a grade two boy of a scientific and technological university,I seem to be able to say just a little bit words.Whenas,what I wouldI agree with you. As a dreamy Pisces, I always get lost in fantasy. I should distinguish dream from reality. Face fact and accept it. Thank you for your advice!
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- Reply Lirika
- qiulong: yeah,you are so strong!you should understand someone once is lost including boy friend ,you shouldn't depression ,hopes in your life is foreward !!!Thank you! Life is good. It is not lack of beauty in the world, just the eyes finding beauty. I should be cheered up.
- Reply Lirika
- bluebird: I agree with Sedgehead that "the only thing that remains the same is that things keep changing." Cherish your present life and friendship; lThank you for your support. As time goes by, it is impossible to make up. What we need to do is create a more prefect future.
- Reply O'Bright
- Yes, the reality is so cruel to us, it made us lost so much and have to accept them, when we are growing can't realize what was actually missed, when we are old will discover it. everyone like that, there are no need to think much about it. just cherish your present life and take care yourself. we always supporting you, come on!
Have a good day.
- Reply creamyvanilla
- I am faced with love in different places ，supporting you& me！
- Reply empty~empty
- You are so loyal to your affection.
- Reply Lirika
- O'Bright: Yes, the reality is so cruel to us, it made us lost so much and have to accept them, when we are growing can't realize what was actually missed, whenThank you very much.Let's cherish our present life and take care of ourselves. Try our best to grasp every single second of life, and do not leave behind any regret!
- Reply Lirika
- creamyvanilla: I am faced with love in different places ，supporting you& me！I will always bless you. Good luck.
- Reply yaping
- Love is always difficult topics, from the human happy now that you have the shadow, after all, love is only a part of life, after all is the road is very long, I believe that you will encounter more suitable in love, not to care about injuries, because that is the process of growing up
- Reply loisliu
- yeah, love is on the way. Don't cry because it was over, smile because it will begin! Don't try so hard. the best thing come when you least expect them to.
- Reply Lirika
- yaping: Love is always difficult topics, from the human happy now that you have the shadow, after all, love is only a part of life, after all is the road is vYeah, I really become mature after all. Maybe I will meet a guy whom is right for me in a suitable moment someday.
- Reply Lirika
- loisliu: yeah, love is on the way. Don't cry because it was over, smile because it will begin! Don't try so hard. the best thing come when you least expect theI hope you are right. May the luckiest thing happened to me someday.
