"Each of your words is like a feather in the wind. Once spoken, no amount of effort, can ever return how heartfelt or sincere, can ever return them to your mouth, choose your words well and guard them most of all in the presence of those you love."

                                                 ——Excepted from Feather in the Wind

I would like to share this excerpt from Feather in the Wind. All of people should keep it in mind and remind you not to say some words to hurt the people you love and love you when you are in angry. I still remembered that my dad told me that you mustn’t make any decision when you are angry or impulsive because the decisions you made at that time are always wrong. When you are impulsive, you will be intoxicated with the anger and impulse so that you are likely to speak out some extreme words and do some extreme behaviors. After you calm down, you will be regretful for your decisions. It can add more sorrow and bitterness for you. When you are angry, maybe the best thing is to be silent and try to calm down yourself. It has a great possibility to say some hurting words when you are full of impulse. Then, you know how to do it, do you?

From where I stand, nobody intends to hurt another one deliberately. In most cases, people hurt others unconsciously. The result caused by hurting others is not happiness but the greater sorrow. Everyone likes to be happy all the time and I believe nobody wants to lead a bitter and miserable life. If you do, you must guard your words and behaviors in case your unconscious hurting behaviors and words make people stay away from you.