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My Childhood

749 views. 2011-8-7 11:02

A wise person said that everything changes except the change itself. Time is constantly moving on and on, and before we know it, we have grown up and become parents ourselves. However, deep in my heart I always wish I could be a child for ever. And there’s a place deep in my heart that is specially reserved for my childhood, and where I let my imagination roar as a child. Anyway, it seems not so far away when I was actually a boy.

 

Most of my childhood memories are related to playing with other kids. It was about half an hour’s walk to school. However, it would take us an hour on the way back, for we always found something fun to do. We would dig sweet potatoes in the nearby fields and then eat them among us. Once we dug out a big one, as big as a child’s head. We would pick mulberry when the season came, and usually ate it as we did. Sometimes we would make vertical flutes out of hollow reeds and play “music” loudly and proudly. There is a river, or rather a canal, along the road to school. Various boats used to come and go busily in the daytime. Occasionally we would plan an ambush against a passing boat. When the ship entered the pre-chosen site, lumps of clay, bricks and even small stones flew immediately towards the ship at the signal of the chief. And we all had fled away before the guys in the boat found out why they were bombarded.

 

The time after returning from school was completely ours. However, we did do something to help support the family--- to cut grass for the sheep. My house was usually the meeting place and then decided where to cut grass, meaning where to play. We went merrily with baskets flung over the shoulders, joking talking and sometimes sharing some “snack” from home. After cutting some grass, we would gamble for grass. The game of hide-and-seek was only for small children, and we had far outgrown it. If there was a dry “pool” where pond-bottom earth was stored as fertilizer, we threw our sickles to see who would be able to make the sickle stand up-side down. Of course it was unavoidable, sometimes, for some of us to get stuck in the mud. Or we just dug several pits in the ground, buried some grass in one of them and then let the other one guess.

 

This kind of games was not exciting enough, so we created many forms of fighting. We would divide into two groups, one in a big tree with lots of leaves and the other on the ground. And our ammunition was, as usual, lumps of clay. Sometimes a long pond would be a natural battle line. A good clay lump fight would be so unforgettable that it could be mentioned and discussed again and again for a long time. Xiao Li was shot and seriously wounded, but he was just unwilling to leave the battlefield. Lao Mao was so smart to attack the enemy’s left flank, which forced them to retreat. I cannot possibly remember how many unforgettable fights we had.

 

Summer was almost heaven for us kids then, for there was no school and we could play in the ponds. What a sight with so many kids playing about in the pond! Some were diving, some were chasing somebody else, and others were exploring the bottom of the pond. Some of us even swam naked since their parents did not allow them to spend so much time in the water. I don’t know how long we stayed in the water, almost the whole afternoon! If no parents came to get us, I believe no one would voluntarily climb out of the water. In the evening, seeing adults having a bath in the pond, we would swim a second time!

 

I never think that we were less happy than the kids today. Yes it was true that there was no Internet, no online games to play, no cell phones, and not so many fancy toys. However, we were truly happy! We were care free in the real sense! Observe the kids today; they seem to be able to get whatever they want. However, can you say they are happier with so many electronic devices and so much love from parents and grandparents? The fact is that they are deprived of the right to get close to nature. 

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Reply 2amlittle 2011-8-7 14:49
I don't know why I do change after two years in university, but  my mum said I am not a good girl I just found thst I became a little boylike.
Reply kevin459 2011-8-7 15:36
After reading your article, I think you should live in countryside in your childhool, your childhood is very colorful. how time filies , we grew up,  childhood has become unforgettable memories in life.  Best wishes!
Reply cgmichael 2011-8-7 15:46
Childhood is a part of improtant and precious memeries in my lifetime. sometimes i offen met my fellows in my dreams, best regards for them.
Reply rich 2011-8-7 16:40
cgmichael: Childhood is a part of improtant and precious memeries in my lifetime. sometimes i offen met my fellows in my dreams, best regards for them.
to tell the truth, when seeing kids playing about, i often think of my own childhood. actually i missed the wonderful time we had, though we had few toys, no computer to speak of. times change and develop, kids of different times may have different forms of happiness. however, they may never know the type of happiness we used to have.
Reply rich 2011-8-7 16:51
2amlittle: I don't know why I do change after two years in university, but  my mum said I am not a good girl I just found thst I became a little boylike.
everyone changes in the course of time, though we may not realize. people may have a sterotype image of a girl or boy. however, there's no person who is exactly the same as others. the latest trend is being neutral, that is, in the middle, girl looking like a boy; or boy looking like a girl. of course, it is mostly limited in the appearance. i guess if a girl has a boyish character, it is not  a bad thing, for you might have both advantages. have a good day!
Reply rich 2011-8-7 16:57
kevin459: After reading your article, I think you should live in countryside in your childhool, your childhood is very colorful. how time filies , we grew up,  
yes i was a countryboy. the paces of the old man of time are just unstoppable. the wheel of time can never be held back. it's a pity, but time is fair to everyone. when we reach an certain age, we would recall the past, esp the childhood. it is a sign that we are grown up or even a little old. i guess your childhood is equally fun and unforgettable.
Reply Sheena1208 2011-8-8 10:30
Sometimes I miss my childhood, too. I have never spent another summer vacation in my hometown since 4 years ago. The other day I saw a junior middle school classmate uploaded some rural scenery picures, which reminded me of the years I spent there in the past years, I cannot help missing my childhood, the trees, the footpaths between fields, the neighbors and the childhood playmates. But we are growing up and things will never be the same. We desire to live in comfort in the cities, dreaming to have a nice car and an apartment, meanwhile, we long for the pastoral life in the countryside. So contradictory we are.
Reply sedgehead 2011-8-8 10:43
I have written 114,000 words about my life and am still writing.  I thought you might enjoy these two blogs:
http://ok-english.net/space-83-do-blog-id-1790.html
http://ok-english.net/space-83-do-blog-id-876.html

Also, I'm delighted to read your blog about your childhood.  It will help me write my book called Fayetteburg.  Thanks!  You can read more about Fayetteburg and my books on the second blog.

Your friend, pH
Reply rich 2011-8-8 10:45
Sheena1208: Sometimes I miss my childhood, too. I have never spent another summer vacation in my hometown since 4 years ago. The other day I saw a junior middle s
yeah you're right. childhood belongs to the past, just some sweet memories. kids of different times have different types of pleasure. and at different stages of life we have different dreams. we should have dreams but cant have everything we wish to have. good luck :-)
Reply rich 2011-8-8 10:50
sedgehead: I have written 114,000 words about my life and am still writing.  I thought you might enjoy these two blogs:
http://ok-english.net/space-83-do-blog-id
Thank you so much for telling me all this. I will read your book and blogs. it will be nice. have a good day, my friend!
Reply bluephoebe 2011-8-9 13:09
sometimes i felt, secretly, that i was still a girl who trapped in an adult's body. glad to know that someone like you also feel reluctant to grow up. The aging process is too complicated, but being a kid is so much fun! although i was not born in a countryside, but in Chengdu, there use to be a vast of farms and fields when i was a kid. so i have the similar childhood, runing, chasing, butterflies-catching..... i don't grow up surrounded by tools, TV dramas, candies like my son, but sometimes i felt sorry that he has missed so much funs like i once did.
Reply rich 2011-8-9 15:26
bluephoebe: sometimes i felt, secretly, that i was still a girl who trapped in an adult's body. glad to know that someone like you also feel reluctant to grow up.
we feel similarly on childhood. maybe because the people i contact are mostly kids, i sometimes do feel falsely that i am one of them, at least not as my age suggests. it may not be bad, for my mind remains young, or young at heart, as some people say.
my son grew up in the city capital here. so he just has no idea what kind of childhood we used to have. they may have their own pleasure, but i do feel sorry, as you do, that their childhood was not as wonderful as ours with so much school work and having to spend so much time indoors.
Reply love_is_circle 2011-8-9 16:42
bluephoebe: sometimes i felt, secretly, that i was still a girl who trapped in an adult's body. glad to know that someone like you also feel reluctant to grow up.
It's true. Kids in cities may not seen furnace, even how vegetables grow.
Reply bluebird 2011-8-14 17:11
I see your imagination can still roar as a kid! I can feel vivid those scenes described by your fluent words, even though the pictures were unfamiliar in my own childhood.
Your lovely essay also reminds me of a lovely old song:

走在乡间的小路上
暮归的老牛是我同伴
蓝天配朵夕阳在胸膛
缤纷的云彩是晚霞的衣裳

笑意写在脸上
哼一曲乡居小唱
任思绪在晚风中飞扬
多少落寞惆怅
都随晚风飘散
遗忘在乡间的小路上
Reply rich 2011-8-14 18:05
bluebird: I see your imagination can still roar as a kid! I can feel vivid those scenes described by your fluent words, even though the pictures were unfamiliar
whenever i see kids playing about, i would think of my own childhood. i admire them for having so many fancy toys to play with. however, at the same time i sometimes feel a bit sorry that they may never have the pleasure we used to have as a kid.
i also like the song, which was a great hit in the chinese mainland in the 1970s-1980s. it came from taiwan and was then called campus song. it makes me reminiscent of the scences in the old days. hehe.
Reply Edelweiss 2011-8-16 15:12
These are the memoris!
Reply rich 2011-8-16 21:19
Edelweiss: These are the memoris!
yes nice memories of my childhood. i guess your childhood must be fun also.
Reply Edelweiss 2011-8-17 18:41
rich: yes nice memories of my childhood. i guess your childhood must be fun also.
Yes, it was.

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