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Doing Nothing This Weekend

465 views. 2012-3-27 20:40

This weekend I did nothing. I just watched some TV, only fun and easy programs, chatted and cracked some jokes with my wife, had a long warm bath and then went out for a walk for about an hour. I simply refused to think about anything serious, giving myself a real-sense break. The only purpose was to relax physically and mentally. To indulge myself further, I even bought some of my favorite food---Meilijia pastries. Yummy! Just the thought of it still makes my mouth watery.

 

Life can be fun and meaningful in many ways. Life is not meant to be eventful to most of us. It may appear dull, but true life will never be dramatic. True happiness consists of little joys, which may seem very insignificant or even petty. It could be watching some TV with a cup of green tea after dinner, stopping and smelling the roses by the roadside or just being together with family. However, these small joys could be the most important things in life.

 

I’ve been feeling tired for quite some time. Ever since the beginning of this semester, I have been teaching three classes. It seems nothing to young guys, but for me, a middle-aged man, it could be hard. Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t volunteer to do that extra work. I need money to make my life easier, but not yet to that extent. I was asked to and somebody had to do the job.

 

I don’t know since when female teachers have outnumbered us men teachers. Nor do I understand why they “chose” to get pregnant almost at the same time. It is said nearly twenty girls are currently in the family way or have just given birth to a baby child. Our principal is making every effort to find suitable substitute teachers. Being desperate and a bit sensitive, she is afraid of any young girl coming into her office. Naturally, men teachers have to hold a little more than half the sky.

 

A wise person once said that doing nothing is an art. In the beginning I was a little confused. How can you call it an art when you’re doing nothing? However, as time went by, I gradually understood the real meaning of that phrase. The secret lies in the difference between doing nothing and having nothing to do.

 

Doing nothing does not necessarily mean that you’re idling away your time. It is your intentional choice to slow down or forget your work for a little while so that you can relax yourself and readjust your life. Therefore it is actually very productive for our future life. If you have nothing to do or no idea what to do, if you find yourself wandering without a clear aim like a headless chicken, it could be a signal that something is wrong with your life.

 

One fact we have to face is that many of us are too busy to accomplish much. More often than not, when we’re supposed to rest, our minds are still on other things. The consequence can be easily predicted: They can’t work efficiently while they actually do their job and can’t rest well while they should. In this sense, doing nothing can be an art, an art of living.  

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Reply samscri 2012-3-27 21:26
Life could be meaningful if your mind is at peace...somone says that, not me...hehehe

As a husband, you expect your wife to give a birh to a child for you, to do the housework for you, to raise your child...etc...As a  governor, you need the females to deliver the next egeneration, to maintain your country...As a colleague, you expect your female co-workers to do their job...But you cannot expect all at just one time...sigh...
Reply lushanshan9010 2012-3-27 22:06
I am with you on this point. it is common for us to believe that we are just sick when we are almost dead. but that is too silly for words. so having a rest is crucial to keep healthy. people who have no time to have a rest will soon learn the importance of rest the hard way. Have a good time!
Reply XueHaiWuYa 2012-3-27 23:30
Wonderful writing; your interest and skill in writing shines through....
I  think that they would bring more joy into their daily life, who take the time to "smell the roses by the roadside."
Reply rich 2012-3-28 10:01
samscri: Life could be meaningful if your mind is at peace...somone says that, not me...hehehe

As a husband, you expect your wife to give a birh to a child fo
i hope you were not offended by anything i said in this blog. i just described the actual situation we are in. i didn't mean to blame anyone in particular. it's nobody's fault but reality is reality. maybe we can come up with a good solution some day.
Reply rich 2012-3-28 10:18
lushanshan9010: I am with you on this point. it is common for us to believe that we are just sick when we are almost dead. but that is too silly for words. so having
i believe he who can work efficiently must be one who is good at taking advantage of every moment possible to rest. after all, we're not machines. we have to strike a balance between work and relaxation. however, really doing nothing and enjoying the nothingness is not easy at all. if you wake up the next morning, feeling completely refreshed like a new person, i guess you've made it. hehe. :-)
Reply rich 2012-3-28 10:30
XueHaiWuYa: Wonderful writing; your interest and skill in writing shines through....
I  think that they would bring more joy into their daily life, who take the
thanks my friend! i blog mainly to record what i observe and its reflection on this world. so it could be trifles, sometimes more like nagging than a serious writing. i feel lucky being able to live in a world where we can basically do what we like.
Reply XueHaiWuYa 2012-3-28 23:02
Reading your article has set me thinking about the many trifles which make up our daily life....
Observation and reflection on life can help us to be aware where we are, where  we’ve been and where we plan to go, that is to say, to realize and preserve our goals of life which prompt our thoughts and actions. It is nice that you can write down your thoughts clearly and share with us here. Thanks.
Reply moli 2012-3-29 11:10
Our company recruited a girl last May, unexpectly, she told us that she was pregnant five month later.Oh, my god! We had to employ another girl to do office work.
Reply rich 2012-3-29 14:46
moli: Our company recruited a girl last May, unexpectly, she told us that she was pregnant five month later.Oh, my god! We had to employ another girl to do
you gave us another example of this practical issue. our principal is a lady, but she said you have to take this into consideration, for if girls, more than two in a grade, asked for maternity leave, who will take their places? hope there will be some kind of solution to this matter. hehe. have a good day, my friend!
Reply samscri 2012-3-30 22:02
rich: i hope you were not offended by anything i said in this blog. i just described the actual situation we are in. i didn't mean to blame anyone in partic
Hehehe...It's okay...and I'm an easy-going person...There is a word called surrogacy...right...Just wish most of families could afford the price...

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