Money is a sensitive topic. Needless to say ,We all need money . Money is not everything , but money is something. If you are broke , you wil know how important the money is. Have you lent your money to others without hesitation ? I don't know how to refuse my relatives and friends when they ask for money from me . I'm glad to help them when they are in trouble. I don't know how many times i lent my money to others. But today i refused my father because i don't have more money to give him now. I am very sorry. Three days ago ,i had lent my money to one of my cousin. I just have several thousand yuan with me and i will pay for my tuition this month . I don't want to borrow money from my friends . I never do it . So i had to tell my dad the truth. My dad always undertands me . My cousin called me and asked me to lend money to him because he lost lots of money for playing mahjong during Spring Festival . He had ran out of his money . It wasn't the first time for him to borrow money from me . Every time he paid me back on time. Every time he told me not to tell anybody especially my aunt. Being a sister , what should i do ? I told him not to gamble again . If he runs out of the money again , i won't lend him money anymore. I remember a guy borrowed money from me when i began to work several years ago and he vanished in my world from then on . How stupid i was. On the pay day ,he asked me to lent him several hundred yuan for living . He said he would return my money in a month . He was a person that i couldn't trust . Though i had a feeling that i wouldn't get my money back , i didn't know how to refuse him . At last , i lent him money because he was my former colleague and my classmate's boy friend. I was told from another friend later that he had broken us with my classmate before borrowing money from me . All the people around me said i was as stupid as a idiot. Actually i did't feel very angry . I didn't expect he would pay my money back when the moment i gave money to his hand. I thought he really needed help. I think i won't lend money to someone i don't trust.but I don't know how to refuse him or her. I even lent money to a cyber friend before. Luckily i got it back. I don't know how to refuse people ,maybe i will be cheated again next time . I have to learn to say no to something. Could you give me some advice ?