One day, a work fellow asked me whether I could exchange the day on duty with him because he had to something important to do on that day. I answered him of course I could immediately. But to my surprised, then he asked me why i didn’t say i could help do his job instead. I was speechless. So I asked him ‘why don’t you say would you mind being on duty for a day for me? I also would give you the same answer.’ Then he had a sigh and said’ why don’t you read my mind? I asked you to exchange means to ask you to do it instead of me. You are really stupid! You are too honesty.’

Then I realized what I did the same stupid thing the other day. He talked there was something wrong with his QQ , but I didn’t pay attention to it, I just did my business and told him some ways to work it out. The next day he mentioned it again and asked me to see whether I could help him to solve it. I began to realize he was my boss, he had his pride, he wanted to get help but he was afraid to lose face.  A poor man, actually i thought he was really stupid in some ways. I really hate the complex persons who never say his real meaning straightly. Is it the art of the language? I really don’t have the gift to understand their intention of their words. It seems I won’t know it until everyone know it.