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My colleague has a cute boy of six with sharp chin and shinning eyes. He is in Grade one now. He is a quiet boy who clings to his mother very much. Wherever you see his mother, you can see him. So we call him as his mother's little tail.
The little tail likes eating snacks very much. Maybe his eyes have nothing except snacks and his mother, which are the most important for him in his mind. Whenever the class is over, he comes into our office and opens his mother's drawer to look for something to eat. No matter what we say, the little boy won't reply us. He never speak to anybody except his mother. At first we thought he was shy, but two months had passed, he still never say a word to anybody esle. Even facing the temptation of the snacks, he never said a single word. We failed many times to give snacks to him.So now we do not tease him anymore. If we want to give him something, we must give it to his mother.
Maybe that is not unusual. After all , he is just a little boy. But he has a habit that whenever he left his mother for class, he will say goodbye to his mother and his mother must say goodbye to him before he leaves. We all say his son is very polite. One day, his mother was busy with talking with another colleague, so she didn't reply him just nodded her head. Do you know what happened, the boy shouted loudly to his mother " Bye bye". He didn't leave until his mother turned around and said goodye to him. His mother complained to us she was very annoyed about his habit and told his son several times do not say to say goodbye in office, but his son still insist on saying bye bye.
Yesterday, i heard the little tail cried loudly in the hallway when i came in office. His mother was still in his anger. My colleague told me she beat his son heavily and ordered him not to say byebye anymore. His mother couldn't stand his habit anymore. How poor the little boy is! We are wondering whether he will say or not in following days. Till now, we don't hear him say bye bye though he comes in the office to enjoy his snacks as usual.
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- Reply Soar
- The other day her mother wanted him to stay with his father for a day and she could climb mountains with us, so she left him when he was in a sound sleep. You can guess what happened after he woke up, he called his mother every about ten minutes.
- Reply Soar
- rowland: He is actually a pretty interesting boyThe other day her mother wanted him to stay with his father for a day and she could climb mountains with us, so she left him when he was in a sound sleep. You can guess what happened after he woke up, he called his mother every about ten minutes.
- Reply possible
- haha..really a cute kid.i guess it is unnormal that a kid will never say to others around except his/her mother..and saying goodbye is not available?i think the mother will recall the every moment that his son say byebye to her...she will fell regretful if her son never say byebye someday...haha
- Reply sunnyv
- The poor boy is suffering from AD "Attachment Disorder". This disorder should be repaired before he reach the age or 8, otherwise, he would develop into personality problems like, insecurity, distrust, inability to create meaningful relations or anxiety. This disorder started when he was a baby and it can be cured while he is still young. It is not right to force him to change. The correct method is to change his views about attachment and independence. Wish this cute boy a bright future.
- Reply 逍遥飞吧
- what a funny and poor boy . l think the mother should not be so strict with the boy . the peer just want to cling to his mother . l think it is normal for him . and he want to say byebye before separated with his mother .
- Reply Soar
- 逍遥飞吧: what a funny and poor boy . l think the mother should not be so strict with the boy . the peer just want to cling to his mother . l think it is normalMaybe he is too young. Maybe he is still not used to the school life. Sometimes he kisses or whisper something to his motber before he leaves and his mother always smile happily. Thoug he is young, i think he needs to learn to be independent and play with his peers not his mother!
- Reply Soar
- loly90:He looks really cute. I hope his simle will always in his face.
What a cute boy he is! Wish him grow up happily and healthily.
- Reply Soar
- sunnyv: The poor boy is suffering from AD "Attachment Disorder". This disorder should be repaired before he reach the age or 8, otherwise, he wouldyeah, i think his behavior is a little unnormal, but his mother seems don't think so, she thinks he is too introverted.
- Reply Soar
- possible: haha..really a cute kid.i guess it is unnormal that a kid will never say to others around except his/her mother..and saying goodbye is not available?iwe all know it's a good manner to say goodbye when we leave somebody, but the little boy say goodbye when most times it doesn't need to say.
- Reply 逍遥飞吧
- Soar: Maybe he is too young. Maybe he is still not used to the school life. Sometimes he kisses or whisper something to his motber before he leaves and hisin my opinion ， we should not set a time-table for the child when he could cling to his mother and after that he should not . let it be . every child is different . if the child is old enough , you even cant force him not to be independent . this is what l thought .
