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A friend who has not contacted me for a very long time, yesterday she sent me greeting for happy nation day. Later, she told me that she now feels in trouble. She has resigned for almost one year because work conditition is not that good and could not put up with it anymore. Now she is home taking care of kids and doing housework. Though her husband does promise that he can raise the whole family, she only needs to stay home and feel comfortable to keep family thing OK. While after leaving office, she gets nervous and even thinks that she is going to get melancholia.
Everyday she has to cook for her hushand and kids, carries kids to school in the morning and picks them back after shool. Gradually she finds there is no one around her except for family, as she is now isolated from society. Though she wants to go back to work again, while now can not find an ideal job and not so confident to be qualifed to be adequate to take a right position. She has to read and do some yoga everyday to kill time, while it seems not to prove her a good prospective. Terrible!
As friend, I told her that she needs to be ok and does not need to worry seriously. Then to see if there are some chances to go back to work, since human beings are gregarious to meet together. It is not just about what the salary she is going to have, but also the chance to go back to normal lifestyle as before. Anybody who leaves the social communication, he or she will soon be dumped.
Whatever, you have to go. Hope you can get better.
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- Reply sunnyv
- In fact, if you look around, you would find the ladies who have a career of regular job appears to be more intelligent, resourceful and sophisticated. At work, we meet different people, face challenges, gain experience and know more people. However, it is not an ideal situation. Statistics show that there are high divorce rates among career ladies. The reason for this is because they feel independent and husbands feel they are not the sole bread winner and accordingly have less importance and significance in the family, hence, there is no satisfaction and that leads to arguments and eventual breakup. Accordingly, if is better for women to have employment if the family conditions permit. On the other hand if there are small children to care for, then it may need second thoughts. There is a price to pay for any decision you make. Nothing is perfect.
- Reply lovingfun
- I guess she must be patience for find a job is very easy, but the one which suit her is much trouble. When we work, we not only support ourself, but as the same time we communicate with others, thus we will think more. Due to we have to hold our state, we have to make a higher goal. In this way, we improve ourself little by little, though not so obvious.
Anyway, wish she can find a suitable job.
- Reply teadrinking
- Yes, I wish she will soon find a job.
lovingfun: I guess she must be patience for find a job is very easy, but the one which suit her is much trouble. When we work, we not only support ourself, but a ...
By the way, we are all doing great as long as we pay our efforts to pursue our goals.
- Reply teadrinking
- Right, something gained, something lost. We have to pay for that.
sunnyv: In fact, if you look around, you would find the ladies who have a career of regular job appears to be more intelligent, resourceful and sophisticated. ...
