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Yesterday was gone, leaving only memory. Whatever it is sweet or bitter, all of those stories stored in mind.
You might feel miserable about how to make a good living. When you are with friends and relatives, you feel pale in comparison of social status, fortune, fame, luxury house, limo and satisfactory marriage.
Even there is a homecoming party, you might feel uncomfortable. Because it is not that a real reunion, those classmates who studied together now have made big fortune. They talk of Ferrari, brands and some large some sum of investment. Whatever if they really have won big fortune and owned social status, it seems not that good when you stay with them.
To be honest, everyone has his own life circle and social connection. After graduation, everyone leaves for another road of life which will be different than others. You are who you are. As the unique personality, and education background, you are surely going to make out the unparalleled path.
Supposing there is a bag of flour, due to the specialty, you make bread, noodles, and all kinds of palatable food as much as you can. Never underestimate your potential. With hands, we create and build up everything we can resort to use.
One day, when opportunities come to you, you seize and realize well. It is not ascribed to luck. In fact, it is you who have prepared well enough to attract them into your way. They are not those you can get just by waiting too long. The process of self-improvement is what the inner motivation pushes to grow and promote.
Those who have gained successful career set a good example for us. But we cannot follow all of them and copy what they have done. What we can is to abstract essential ingredients of their persistence, resilience, capacity of anti-adversity and respect their charisma in terms of personality, execution and self-discipline. Those are the valuable things we should view them as guideline.
There is no such a shortcut to achieve something in a short time. You only see its appearance yet not fully understand the hard work endeavored behind the scene.
Since a person is inadequate to all of things because of limitation of self- cognizance, therefore he has to select something which is right for him. Usually you just think too much, while rarely put ideas into pragmatic use.
Surrounded by countless temptations, it is not easy to concentrate on the thing at hand. Distracted by colorful world, void attempting to attain all is only an imagination of utopia. Grab the zeal, dump the badness and absorb from elites, discard turbulence and seal it up.
Something lost, something gained. Something we never forget ever since.
Let it be you as long as it goes till the end of extinguish.
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- Reply sunnyv
- Seems your social experience are quite similar to mine. You have written a sensible, pragmatic and representational article here, and you have written it well. It is so worthwhile and satisfying discussing with friends here about our common experience because through this, we could understand the things we hear about socially which could derail us or throw us off track. Never let those success stories get into our mind. There could be hidden facts behind them or could be misleading. We should not be affected by the claimed success stories of our classmates, old friends, relatives and others. Those claimed successes often unnecessarily misguide us, make us feel inadequate or depress us.
Through my business, old friends, relatives and social circles, I have accumulated considerable social experience and knows how people think and act. We should learn how to discern facts. I can tell you with certainty that we should not believe those success stories on surface value. It is definitely not that easy to be wealthy or attain high social status unless you come from a rich family or your luck is exceptionally good. Some of their successes could have doubtful or shameful background.There are often misrepresented facts in those stories.
Lets take for example an old schoolmate who lives nearby. One day when I was out for some refreshments, he drove by, stopped his flashy car at the curb and waved at me to go over to him. He appeared confident and in high spirits, but I could notice the artificial confidence. He told me he bought a luxury home and the car he was driving. Later I was told that he only paid a deposit for his house and the car was also on hire-purchase. He had crippling monthly payments on those luxuries. Eventually, he could not support his exorbitant monthly repayments and the banks repossed everything he had. I was told that his reason for buying cars and other luxuries was trying to break into high society in order to make quick money. How innocent he is. Everything needs effort and sincerity. How much effort equals how much reward. Some people dream of success, while others wake up and work hard at it. There is no shortcut to success.
Wish everyone success in the New Year 2016 and live a happy and contented life.
- Reply teadrinking
- Pondering from your friend's story, I also find there many guys around have such kind of a behavior to show off. Which I do not like. I just love to do everything by hands and hard work.
sunnyv: Seems your social experience are quite similar to mine. You have written a sensible, pragmatic and representational article here, and you have written ...
It is good that we can communicate and exchange views and ideas. This helps me to understand more and get to know well about something that I did not know before.
2016 is coming wish you enjoy the new year.
