My colleague asked me: “Have you given any thought about dating a girl online?”
We walked on the bank of the river after lunch, and I was interrupted by his question.
“Seriously! what?” I asked.
“You know, it is prevalent that a bachelor will order a deal online and bring his fake girlfriend back home. It is Spring Festival, isn’t it?” He explained.
“Oh, didn’t know. Never got such an idea. I just spend time with parents and do some others.” I replied.
“Aha, you see. AS long as there are needs, there are supplies.” He laughed.
“Right. Almost everything can be found online as we think of. But, I really have no such an idea about girl-dating thing. Not that bad to stay single.” I told him.
Every spring festival, it could be the best time that most parents and relatives grouping together to inquire of marriage, incoming, promotion and blah, blah, blah. This chance they would never miss, since this the time people are gathering to talk and discuss, of course, some of those talks are more like small talks and gossips.
The case probably escalates to comparison about how remarkable one’s social status is, how big fortune that Mr. Lee made, how lucky Miss Wong finds a good husband. Everything seems to be very impeccable and perfect. Then a huge burden loads down upon the shoulder with the doubt by asking: “How come everybody lives so well, and I am feeling tired and having no sense of happiness. I see myself working hard all year around.” The feeling of new year frozen to be meaningless, only the hope exists the it should end up soon and get out the restriction from cage.
While sometimes we find that everyone has his happiness, also something bothered and stuck. Maybe, that uncle Yong suffers the pain of losing best family members. Or the Lady who runs a successful career is now worrying her marriage due to derail of her husband with an affair. Even that billionaire prefers kicking the bucket rather than to dealing with designated successor.
You are the person who leads the life as you want. Nobody else really dominates you. Only you are the one who should change and improve the condition of yours.
“You know what. I’d rather want a time machine.”
“Why?” He wondered.
“Because then I can trip with time. If so, now I can skip to the spring festival eve and pay you the New Year’s call in advance”, I said.