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Gregariousness always exists. There are leaders or pioneers who hold everything ordered or maintain membership in an organization. Whenever and wherever we are at, it goes to be normal since there are some familiar faces who are always representative and remaining active. They either host activities or push and encourage others to move on.
To be with such groups of people would benefit us greatly, that is the room to lodge. Once you are stepping into that kind of atmosphere, everything is fueled with full cans of energy and power. We see motivation as the core growth, and inspiration the catalyst of motivation. Both of them would be mates to interact and effect each other. Everyone has such kind of prime ability of activating upgraded. And the positive people are just those ones who may install and influence you to be a passionate fighter.
It is necessary to learn from those good people, unless you are very strong enough to cope with adversity, laziness and procrastination so that you just do it by your own. The fact is almost everyone of us does meet some problems, we may feel uncomfortable to read, sick of engaging in intensive physical exercises. Therefore, obviously and essentially, we surely require that kind of positive groups where we can resort to study, learn and improve.
When we are surrounded by a bunch of drunkards, smokers, gangs of idlers and wanderers-a world fulls of darkness, we recognize and learn of nothing but such as mahjong-playing, fooling around. In terms of mahjong, it offers no worry of finding a place to play that. It could be at a corner of side streets, or even a remote backward countryside. People (including, men, women, kids and the old) work on it day in and day out as if they were spelled to be fascinated to death. How terrible it is.
I’d rather kick the bucket than play that, painfully in doing that. Someones who keeps complain the world is not fair and god does not give him a rich family or very nice opportunity to success, but rarely gives a thought about what exactly he should do and what kind of goals he is about to set up. The burden is much harder as in rainfall pours down upon shoulders if we are not ready and prepared well. On someday, you are likely to be enrolled and assimilated into that membership. All the thing is nothing else but the murmuring of petty misfortune.
From now on, just say no to be with those inappropriate groups and deter self corruption. Meanwhile stay away from those mean guys who will ruin your life.
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- Reply sunnyv
- I often hear people say that you can see judge the personality and the virtuousness of a person by his the quality of his friends, companions. Not sure if this is a right way to judge a person but there seems to be some justification.
People who engage in gambling are usually those who have no faith in his own strength and ability. That is why some people always dream of winning a lottery prize.
We harvest what we sow.
- Reply Rosanna
- Everywhere there is a bad apple, so right mentality to face anything is very important right now, no matter you are poor or not.
- Reply teadrinking
- Yes, so we face many things whatever they are good or not, we just have to envisage and tackle those things around us.
Rosanna: Everywhere there is a bad apple, so right mentality to face anything is very important right now, no matter you are poor or not.
We have choices to make ourselves better from judgement. Though sometimes we fail to the right direction, we learn from lessons and we get improved then.
- Reply teadrinking
- Nice metaphor about "We harvet what we sow."
sunnyv: I often hear people say that you can see judge the personality and the virtuousness of a person by his the quality of his friends, companions. Not sur ...
To be what kind of people and social circles, we are going to be something alike with them.
Meanwhile we also influence others who are with us. With our efforts and hard work to let them know and realize the world is not that bad.
Gambling and something other unmeaningful make us dull. I do not like that. Go and do what we should do by hands is the best to earn life other than dream of buy a lottery to win a prize.
- Reply teadrinking
- You are a person who owns drams. English is one of your means to express and exchange. I see growth from your studing and learning. Though sometimes you kind of have some problems which bother you and make you uncertain about what the future would be like ahead of you.
freefu55: How am I in your eyes?
In fact, everyone has drams and plans to struggle for a better life. It could be simple but meaningful. Everyone meets difficulites and setbacks, we are all on the way to try making chaning of our present condition for the sake of a nicer tomorrow.
Wish you are with us to be together and exploring and fighting for the good time.
- Reply sweetolive
- HI, Teadrinking
You are very smart. Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Barbara Sher , a best-selling author on goal achievement who wrote: I also see that I have a great need to be surrounded by interesting, independent people with strong opinions and lots of experience.
As we have rare chance to meet someone in real life, who can afford time encourage us or motivate us, therefore, it is necessary for us find someone from society by reading their motivational books, inspiring quotes, articles, or watching TED.
Actually, I am always spend a lot of time, whenever sitting on the train on the way to work or lying on the bed before sleep, I will never get bored for reading those encouraging stories. Because it gives me energy, they are my allies who support me for pursuing my dream.
- Reply teadrinking
- I have seen that you are fond of reading which is a good habit. You can learn a lot by reading books. I do like that kind of feeling when I am alone to read something. It could be at deep night or on weekends when I arrage some of my time doing that.
sweetolive: HI, Teadrinking
You are very smart. Motivational speaker Jim Rohn said: We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with. Barbara Sh ...
And articles, good tvs, TEDs are all very good ways to enrich our horizon and expand our mind. This is a nice to way to live what we want. Not just simply to kill time by doing something unmeaningful.
