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When friends are posting lovely kids, nice pictures with beloved ones, some ads about selling kinds of stuff, I absolutely do not get involved in that circle. First, I do not have much time to see and tell all of those messages. Second, I do like to spend time doing some others. In the first beginning, the use of friends circle in those social install tools was to enhance connection between friends, while now it comes to be chaotic turbulence.
As a matter of fact, it is okay that everyone has the right to post something they want. But we still have to be sure that we should pay the attention about our behaviors. The most important things is to protect privacy. I do not understand those guys why constantly show themselves, particularly, with their kids. Since the convenience of fast transferring, a picture would be easily to be forwarded to other people, which could be risky, if some of those who probably have some intentional purposes. For examples, a kid is vulnerable to suffer kidnapping or some other potential injury, since he or she has not formed that concept of self-protection. I do not think it supportive for doing so. I see another meaning of this behavior is the disrespectful to their kids and meanwhile the selfish and blind action to expose their privacy into public. Most of parents are in the hope of sharing, while unconsciously they may commit some stupid crime which assists those guys who might conceive intentional bad ideas.
There are also occasions, some guys with whom I rarely contact come out to ask me to vote for their kids by sending me a link. Usually it is a link with detailed information of their kids about age, image, etc., who are taking part in some competition, something like a singing contest, painting competition and so forth. Oh, dear lord. You are really so generous to let your kids to be fine in that way. What an unwise manner. Is your kids’ safety only worthy of that kind of link by the potential uncertainty of risks?
Just one month ago, in France, such a behavior by posting pictures of kids online, parents will be punished and fined, even would be sentenced into prison. That somehow tells us the importance of self and privacy protection. Think about that your kids might sue you when they grow up and find you had done that without any permission. It is not a joke, kids are independent and ever sine they were born. Parents are obliged to raise kids meanwhile should be responsible for their safety. They are not pets, puppets or personal belongings. We may consider it exaggerated and do not care that too much. Only one thing can be proved, most of us are somehow deficient in the awareness of lawful concept. This case is an alert that something we just take for granted can cause some unnecessary troubles even would be involved in accusation.
Besides, I am really bored to see any of guys who send a lot of ads in the circle for sales. Personally, I just say no to this gang of members on my list. I either delete or shelter them so I will never be enrolled into that whirlpool. The circle is the personal territory. You might argue, hey, it is my domain, too, so I can do whatever I want. Surely, that is your choice, I also have the right to shut down the connection.
The cybercrime does influence us and trigger larger impact on our life. We are fragile to attacks from the internet meanwhile suffer the further threat transferred into our reality and daily life. Think about the phone calls everyday from many frauds claim they have some services about house selling, shop renting, promotion about sales, etc. You even do not know where do those guys obtain your telephone number and how come they know your personal information.
I saw a paragraph of words from one of my friends, says that his friends’ circle now becomes the store of agents for sales from both domestic and foreign foods, it has no feeling attached to that initial peaceful and interesting place any more.
Our fragmentary time could have been used well so long as we focus on something meaningful and avoid hurting people and protecting ourselves as well.
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Post comment Comment (2 replies)
- Reply sunnyv
- I agree with you totally. At first those social chat apps and software enables us to maintain contacts with friends and chat instantly. However, this convenience has been exploited beyond recognition. We are receiving all types of ads and promotions rendering those chat engines useless. Another annoying thing is that, I can't understand why some friends have to take a photo of every plate of food they eat at restaurants and send it to everyone. One photo is ok but many and frequently is torturous.
Here at dioenglish, it is much better. We can read and write in a relaxed and free way at any time convenient to us. Some can learn to write better English while I can understand what is on the mind on people and I can give some appropriate suggestions or advice wherever possible.
The way some parents post photos of their children is indeed risky. No responsible parent should let their young children photos floating around on the internet.
- Reply teadrinking
- You are so warm to help others. Those helpful suggestions make us know and understand better on some things happen to us. Since your seasoned experienceis a precious treasure to guide us.
sunnyv: I agree with you totally. At first those social chat apps and software enables us to maintain contacts with friends and chat instantly. However, this ...
