I do not need to see common ground, I only need to seek what I want. There is no success comes to be successful as same as others do. So I do not have to follow others and I should absorb nutrients by myself, with the help of sunshine, just like a tree I can make something together.
It is a waste of time thinking of something meaningless too much. The core of life is to live on and thus it has to be on the focus of what exactly should a person do his business. Then the desire for more will be much stronger once a man has reached the level of basic needs. Then hobbies and some interesting things that a man can try on.
There is no such a judgement to see if a man is good or not. I get to know the best thing is to work for a better tomorrow and a nicer self. On approach to perfection is hard but deserved, I will feel lonely but not desprate.