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One of my best friends asked me if I could lend him some money. My answer was NO. Yes, it was because that money was not a small sum. Sure he explained that he was for the emergent use. And of course I replied that I did not have that ability to solve this problem for him. A couple of few days later, he told me that he had figured out that problem. As a matter of fact, I had already helped him for several times by lending him some money. But that time I though it must be an end otherwise he may keep asking that from time to time. If he accpeted my disapproval, I thought we could still be friends. We are still friends now. True friends never lie to each other and frienship is built on the base of trustworthiness.
Through many years, I have already dumped many so called friends. We never have connections and are not possible to contact anymore. Out of many reasons, we just do not have consensus at all and belong to differnt social circles. On regular basis, some of those people on the list will be removed since I know we never say hello to each other any more. Truth is proved that my world is more clear. The efficient social connection would be mutul and helpful. On some level, this kind of hehaviour is something extreme, while I just do not care.
Pay attention to those meaningful things and never waste too much time on something meaningless. Thus, this is at large for me to select what I want. First of all, I should be realistic, sociable, and even secular. Then I am to choose becoming ideal and being a perfectionist as I dreamed of.
Though the choices and decisions sometimes are hard to make, I'd rather like doing everything by my principles. It surely has no perfection, while I am on the way to be perfect. Whatever I do, I like to be the one who can do the best. Wherever I am at, I want to be the one who can stand higher to overlook longer and further. But do get me wrong, I am still the man who is warm always.
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- Yes. If you want to be a good friend, you must haven't any economic relationship with one.
