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As November 11th,2011 is just around the corner,the word "single" becomes a hit again.And what's funny,some people give the number 20111111 a new definition.That is say, love you heart and soul forever.
To be single is not horrible,it's just a kind of new life style chosen by many young people.When it comes the topic,remnant daughter cannot be overlooked.Modern ladies,especially for those who are well educated with a high salary would rather remain single than marry down by choosing partners less qualified than them.One reason is for they are financially indepent so that they can pretty much do what they want and take marriage non-seriously.The ladies whose condition is superior, to a large extent,volunteer to stay single but not be left with.The other reason is for the shrinking social network.Today when the digitalization and internet are rapidly developing,many on-the-job like to stay at home at weekends or in holidays.Anyway,they can shop online and even make friends online,but many of these so-called friends are chance acquaintances or people they will never meet in real life.
Well, whether you are single or not,enjoying yourself is most important.Not too concerned about everything, but without the need to insist on, let everything flow!However,letting everything flow doesn't mean ask for nothing,but also need to make an effort.
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Post comment Comment (12 replies)
- Reply lijuanandrea
- single or not, dosen' t matter so much at all
- Reply SusieQ
- lijuanandrea: single or not, dosen' t matter so much at allagree with you,it's the happiness that really matters.
- Reply SusieQ
- heai88: volunteer to stay single but not be left with-->in Chinese"自愿单身，而不是被剩下"
but not be left with???
- Reply Haiena
- I never let being single bother me. To marry somebody just to get married is not for me. The world has changed. To be single is fashionable, hehe, that is the way I see it. so what? If somebody suitable cross my pass I would not let him go easily.
- Reply snowflying
- this is entire a privite choice. it depends on the different person's viewpoints. whether what a choice, life should be enjoyed. single life should be wonderful too. i think not to be single is maybe more rich and colourful life.
- Reply samscri
- Lovely girl on your avater...so you're married?...Well, it's realy hard to say what to marry for mowdays...When you're independent, you don't need another person's salary to live a life; when you're educated, you know what kinda life you're seeking; when you're living on your own, you realize what's the most important things to you...I mean, maybe you do expect someone, but not just for a ligitimate living condition, it's something more...
- Reply SusieQ
- Haiena: I never let being single bother me. To marry somebody just to get married is not for me. The world has changed. To be single is fashionable, hehe, thaSingle means free,this kind of lifestyle is not bad.Sometimes the more we expect to meet the one,the more we are depressed.I do believe life will bring us something better and far more special.
- Reply SusieQ
- snowflying: this is entire a privite choice. it depends on the different person's viewpoints. whether what a choice, life should be enjoyed. single life should beYeah,to be single or not,it's one's own choice.The two person's worlds can be wonderful,as you said,the single life can be amazing,too.So this is not a question for me.Having fun and enjoying life are priorities.
- Reply SusieQ
- samscri: Lovely girl on your avater...so you're married?Totally agree with you,your analysis is reasonable and acceptable.Today so many modern ladies prefer to be single or select men based on how supportive they might be to their careers, rather than whether they can support them financially.So what they marry for is hard to answer.BTW,very pleased you like my avatar,and I'm single....Well, it's realy hard to say what to marry for mowdays...When you're independent, you don't
- Reply samscri
- SusieQ: Totally agree with you,your analysis is reasonable and acceptable.Today so many modern ladies prefer to be single or select men based on how supportivPretty girl...must be your sweet heart...
