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WHO CAN TELL ME?
I had a very close roommate in the college. Several year ago we get to know each other in our university,We used to do a lot of things together in college.such as dinner,study, playing computer games,etc..I looked him as one of my best pals in college. After graduation from school,we chose different companies,but our friendship is still on.As we still in the same city,we have the get-together often.
He is a good man with lots of excellent personalities.For example:optimistic,honest,clever and diligent~~I remember when we were in college,He was always studying hard.After graduation he took the exam of CPA couples of years ago which is treated as the most difficult exam in China.He has passed three subjects among it in the last four years.Actually it's not very easy.He is my model sometimes.
But now he is in a tough situation,the exam requires all the participants must pass the total five sujects in five years.So he has to deal with two different subjects during this year.And the final is coming soon in September.He is worrying about the final result of his exam.He feels a little discouraged.His wife said now he is wasting time playing computer games every day after work.Today she told me he perhaps will give up the exam.Even his parents and wife can't make him go into the review once again. she wants me to help him to boost the morale.I don't know why he finally wants to abandon the exam.Maybe he is over stressed recently. I sincerely hope he can stick it out.I am sure he will recover finally.And now I really want to be a help to him.But how can I be more persuasive than his wife and his parents?I wonder it.
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- Reply Sally_Fan
- Take a time and talk with him, help him relax himself, such as do some sports together, choose a proper time to persuade him not to give up his plan, and tell him you have confidence for him, and so on.
- Reply yoyocx0921
- maybe you will begin with your college life, such as how he hard to study and get the fruitful achievement, how he industrious to pass the three subjects in the last four years,and the follow two subject will decide his successful, if give up, all the endeavor will be wasted...
I'm sorry, I'm not good at comfort
- Reply wondercat
- Maybe he need a friend to support him, encourage him and say to him: I totally understand....
- Reply daisydaisy
- i can understand him. after such a long time endeavor, he must feel tired. yes, he could be diligent during your school time, but now, he is in the society, all the press from his job, family and future make him really exhausted. the exam really stares him in his face, so tell him exert all his efforts these months, and then give a comfortable vacation to himself. let everything down, just relax himself.
by the way, can you tell me what does CPA mean?
- Reply zhangqin_love
- Today she told me he perhaps will give up the exam.(your friend is boy or girl i cant understand )
- Reply woods
- zhangqin_love: Today she told me he perhaps will give up the exam.(your friend is boy or girl i cant understand ),She is his(my friend) wife.Is it clear?
- Reply woods
- daisydaisy: i can understand him. after such a long time endeavor, he must feel tired. yes, he could be diligent during your school time, but now, he is in theSure,CPA just is the initials of Certified Public Accountant
- Reply woods
- yoyocx0921: maybe you will begin with your college life, such as how he hard to study and get the fruitful achievement, how he industrious to pass the three subjeYeah,Your opinion is very bright.Maybe he needs a pal in the exam. Fortunately I can do it.
- Reply woods
- wondercat: Maybe he need a friend to support him, encourage him and say to him: I totally understand....Ok,I agree.I'll do that.
- Reply woods
- Sally_Fan: Take a time and talk with him, help him relax himself, such as do some sports together, choose a proper time to persuade him not to give up his plan,Aha,I'll go see him this weekend.
- Reply daisydaisy
- amh, dig it. it is really a difficult exam, need to use more brain cell to deal with the numbers.
- Reply yoyocx0921
- woods: Yeah,Your opinion is very bright.Maybe he needs a pal in the exam. Fortunately I can do it.hehe, so , go-ahead!
- Reply ybq1215
- i think it is useless to worry about the future . all we can do is to strive hard and let other matters be dicided by the providence ,
as a friend , i think you should try to comfort him and help him stave off bad feelings .
- Reply zhangqin_love
- woods:oh ~i understand now~,She is his(my friend) wife.Is it clear?
- Reply Minghong
- Girls like to talk about what is bothering them, of course only with good friends. I do not know if that applies to man too. If it is, maybe you can ask him what the problem is, of course you do not go straigt to him and expect him to tell you right away. You can ask him out, just have fun and relax, do the things you two used to do in college like playing sports or somting, when he is relaxed, he may tell you the true story.
Wish him luck .
No cross, no crown.
- Reply Tange
- it is not easy to bring him back from such computer game,
indulge electronic game is just like alcoholism.
i hope your friend is just get temporary lost .
