Recently,I have a new discover,it's that we always felt nervous or fear when we meet someone or something,do you know why? dear,is it because we're shy?  Care? or worry rejected? lack of confidence, or just as we worry Lost?

For this point there have so many things that can suppot the view,take some of my do business friends as an example,as our factory always went to the exhibation,thus there have large amount of card need them to call the potential customer,for a new comer,she always didn't know how to find the topic or what should she said,or just said a little word and hurry to get off the phone,and she always very sad,why she so worry? no doubt,she fear the other will rejected her,then she will lost the customer....

For me,I always meet that kind of phenomenon,when in school our teacher need us take a speech in the platform,I always didn't like  prepare it  well  before the speech,thus I couldn't have the confidence,couldn't show myself well,later I realized this point,thus before I began to find a job,I always try to prepare myself well,but there always made some mistake in my interview,about two weeks ago,I weet to a mold factory to have an interview,when I went there,I found this factory is so good,and the place that the factory also suit me,in the interview time,I always worry lost this chance work in that factory,so my introduce or my expression is so bad,all the process I felt very nervous...

So many times we could't show ourself well,it's just because we're worry lost,realized the problem's essence,it will help us to try to find the solve method,also help us show better ....