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can't control myself
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I know i can't control myself, always known. And i had tried many times to control myself, but not successed.
I'm a little fat, because of too much eatting. i told myself every minute to lose weight, for beauty clothes, for tempting body, for compliment, but it doesn't work.
i can't save money, i used to spending my every yuan moneny no matter if it necessary. when i have money i spend. i told myself i need a laptop, just save money for 3 or 4 monthes, i can have one. but 4 years past and I never have a laptop.
it always goes like this, i tried and tried and tried, but always can't control!
i feel bad, self-reproach. i'm an adult now, but no restraint. an woman like this must have no future! what can i do? continue to try to control myself ? eh, it's the only thing i can do before the other methods are find out.
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Post comment Comment (5 replies)
- Reply moli
- I am sorry to hear that.
All you need is action at once.
Nobody but you can help yourself out.
Good luck!
- Reply Mandyshine
- Sometimes, the resolution fails just because we give ourselves too much presure. Try to relex, take it easy. Everything's goona be all right! Come on!
- Reply jennytang
- don't worry about these ,let it is in accordance with its natural tendency! may be some time later ,u find yorself have a lot happiness around .
- Reply Shell-M
- as to the fact that you are a little fat ,i think you can do some sports as spring is coming .as to control yourself i think you give loose to yourself, you should build up a strong mind
- Reply obluevivi
- perhaps two causes, you want a laptop but it doesn't mean you need it necessarily,immediately,urgently.So you delay the plan again and again unconsciously. You said you are a little fat, since it's just " a little", i think it doesn't has essential impact on you, so you might overlook it very often.
The other one is, you have weak willpower. If so, why are you going to push yourself ? Just take life as it comes, i always talk myself. That way,we can enjoy our life easy.
