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Hot 4452 views. 2013-6-12 22:55 | concerned, something, somebody, usually, people


When we are asked to express our views or attitudes of something or somebody else that disappoints us, some of us would give a direct negative answer regardless of the feelings of the people concerned, and some of us would reply in a euphemistic way to avoid hurting others. Undoubtedly, the first kind of answer would bring about embarrassment or even anger, and the second would be more acceptable. So in spite of our claim to be treated frankly, we usually get annoyed with others about their telling the truth. We would prefer praise to criticism although we clearly know the praise is just flattery and the criticism is true. 

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Reply DioScofield 2013-6-13 10:07
It all depends. Some criticism are good for mistakes we made, it was said good medicine was bitter. But some criticism pepple give are not kind,  whose purpose is to hurt somebody. I suppose only improve our heart and mind more stronger, we can defeat all the hit then learn from it.
Reply ocean0721 2013-6-13 12:31
I prefer the truth.
Reply sunnyv 2013-6-13 18:58
In mature and well educated communities, people don't criticize or evaluate people directly. We only need to let them know indirectly or in a veiled manner and they would get it into their minds. The reason for this is because everyone have rights to self-respect. However, we do sometimes come across people who are rude beyond imagination, and we need to deal with them firmly.
Reply qingteng1983 2013-6-14 14:01
One day, the truth and the lie went to swim,  after swimming lie went ashore firstly and dressed himself in truth's clothes, then lie left. when truth went ashore, he could not find his own clothes,  but he refused to dress in lie's clothes, and has insisted on being naked until now.
After that, we can't accept the naked truth, but love the lie in the truth's clothes.

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