When my late wife married me, both of us were virgins. We even didn't know how to make love to each other during the first days of our marriage. But now the situation has changed greatly. It's rare for girls not to have sex before their marriage especially in town. In remote villages, many would-be couples begin to go to bed shortly after their first dating. Some unmarried girls get pregnant as a result. Sometimes they are obliged to have an abortion for saving their face after breaking with their boyfriends. Wife told me she had ever refused the presumptuous demands of one of her former boyfriends. She added that she must keep her virginity before meeting her future husband. I replied I would forgive her if she committed adultery with the man she loved. Hearing these hearty words of mine, she assured me that she would never cheat me. She kept her word up to her death almost four years ago.