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Modern marriage is quite different from the traditional one. It tends to be fragile rather than durable. Before the wedding the cautious newly-weds usually sign a divorce agreement for the division of property and obligations to be fulfilled respectively in case they should divorce in the future. There is a regrettable lack of magnanimity to each other. Coming from one-child families, both of them are self-centered. They are inclined to quarrel over trifles that lead to divorce. Another reason for the short-lived marriage is that it is full of deception. The two sides get married with their own purposes, the man for sex and the woman for property and cash. They never wanted to make a living by marriage but for enjoyment.
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- Reply sunnyv
- It is quite painful to see people using marriages to acquire all sorts of advantages. Some men get married to obtain the breadwinner status, fake self confidence, bedroom gratification, and posterity. Women use marriage to dispel gossip about their unmarried status, bring wealth and good life to themselves and their parents, easily obtain property and other benefits. The divorce law courts nowadays routinely just divide the assets and simply give half of everything to the wife, regardless of whether she contributed anything before or after marriage. This sort of rules does encourage people to marry for wealth. Furthermore, people expect too much material comforts from marriage and eventually, they realize that it is not a garden of roses ready to be picked.
Nuptial agreements or marriage contracts are quite ridiculous. I am not sure if necessary, but somehow, it can prevent people from seeking wealth through marriage.
However, there are still some sensible men and girls who yearn for love marriage whereby both struggle to build a love nest and warm family with smart offsprings.
Caring for our other half is a sacred commitment. We should all consider carefully before entering into a marriage, otherwise, all we would get is hurt, distrust, frustrations and a lot of alimony to pay.
- Reply loly90
- At the beginning, God only create Adam, later he wants to create a helper for Adam, when Adam fell into deep sleep, God took out of one of Adam's rib and turned it to a woman, so she became the first human's mother Eva.
So we can see that they are one together, man cannot abandon woman at random after they get into marriage. God asked them to give birth to babies and fill the earth and be happy...
Now the world is geting worse obviously, coz they are doing good for their selfish intention, they don't listen to God's words and will cause many troubles in return
