Not all adult males can be called men. As a man, to begin with he must be able to support himself independently. And secondly, he can ensure a happy life to his family and his parents. Thirdly, he can contribute more or less to the progress of our civilization. Finally, when he is urgently needed, he'll respond actively. Nowadays these men are getting fewer and fewer, which can be accounted for by the following factors. The parents have been spoiling their son since his birth. This results in his total dependence on his parents afterwards. Moreover, the expensive marriage makes it impossible for the son to deal with by himself. Without the old parents' care and support, the young couple can't fare well. What he lacks is the cultivating the spirit of independence from his childhood.