During our life journeys, we meet many people, the girl or the boy we love, the landlord we hate, the roommates we think they are stupid... As time passes by, we talk to those people, sometimes we bind our relationship deeply, sometimes we want to loose them a little bit. I always think it's very difficult to guess people's heart. How to know that if a person feel good when he or she is with you. How to make them comfortable when people are with you. How to be a good lover who can always satisfy his or her another half? We think, we guess, we struggle at our daily life. Trying to achieve something, trying to impress someone. But what's the point? What do we live for? Who do we live for?

When you see a pretty girl, do you ever try to impress her? Do you want her to be your girlfriend? Why do you care about her? Does she mean so much to you? Maybe you ask yourself too much or you care about your feeling too much. Why don't you just ask her out for a date? But if you do that, you get even more things to do: find a good enough restaurant which provide delicious food. You then have to accompany her home after dinner and see if she's willing to have another date. You two keep doing this for several mouths and develop deep feelings to each other. Love, marriage, children... Things keep coming, you want to take a break, but when the break is truly in front of you, what do you do to it? It's just like a waste of time. When you don't have a job, you want a job. When you don't have time to rest, you want to take break. You can't always get what you want. Besides, when you truly get the thing you like, how long the happiness will last?

Your life just keep going and keep going no matter if you like it or not. You can't avoid what is coming to you. Either you beat life down or life beats you down. Once I thought homework, presentation, challenge... anything that I thought is difficult could be delayed and would be finished becomes a burden, a stone, a ghost, unless you beat it down, it will hunt you and make you struggle. Just like MJ sang:”Just beat it!”. When we face the challenges, we think to much, that thought only makes us weak, stop moving forward.

The world maybe unfriendly to you, but you face it, you will become a fighter, a brave person. That's the guy I want to be: brave, decisive. Face it, break it and you win.