After a nap , I washed the dishes . I found the kitchen was dirty and needs a general cleaning badly .The kitchen countertops were covered with oil . These days the meals are always prepared by my husband . Seeing this , I became unsatisfied with him . Why didn’t he know he should make the kitchen cleaner ? But I didn’t want to ask him to do the work . I asked myself when he cooked , what did I do ? It was not only his duty to do housework .While doing the cleaning , my husband was reading a book . I thought and thought . As the saying goes ,  do not impose on others what you yourself do not desire . Take me for example , sometimes I don’t want to do any work . But sometimes I work hard . So how can I force my husband to stop reading to do what he doesn’t want to do ? I am not his master and he is not a slave . I should make him happ and relaxed at home .As a couple , we should adapt to and respect each other and we shouldn’t limit each other’s freedom wildly . Some people said marriage is the tomb of love . In fact , sometimes we should put ourselves in others’ shoes . In this way, we may act better .

Life is a big stage, and everybody plays its role. I not only want to perform well in my work unit , but also at home .