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I quarrelled with my husband again . I knew I was wrong .
Last night , I called one of my son’s teachers . The line wasn’t clear enough because of the outside disturbance . I asked my husband to turn down the sound of TV . But he said my voice was too loud and even he could hear what was said on the phone clearly. After finishing the call , I asked what was said on the phone. He couldn’t . I blamed him .
After a while , I knew I could choose another place to make a phone call instead of turning down the TV . I think it was not good to make my husband angry for such a matter . We should treasure the valuable holiday . I hope our family are always in harmony and full of happiness . I had to make up of what I had done .
I played with his fingers and patted him in the arm. ”Hey, are you still angry ?” No response . “It isn’t worth getting angry at. It isn’t good for your health .” In fact, I wanted to say sorry . But I felt shameful to say sorry again because I had made similar mistakes many times. I didn’t think I should be forgiven so easily .
“There is no need to get angry with you ” He said and at the same time he moved his body farther away from me .
I was really hurt. His words made me feel myself so unworthy . Maybe I hurt himself too much , I ---
I have no strength to speak to him. Then I spent a lot of time in the bathroom , listening to music and thinking about how to get along with my husband .
Why is it so hard for me to behave better ?
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Post comment Comment (4 replies)
- Reply snowflying
- my friend, from your blog, i knew you are a teacher too. i always respect teacher for so many years and i think i will be the same in future. in my sight, as a teacher, most of teachers have wide thoughts and kind teaching, as a female teacher, i also think she should be kind enough that winning her students's respection.if i would be a teacher, i think i must be very kind to my students.
to be frank, quarreling between wife and husband surely normal,and usually no any big things at all. seems a teacher's family is not a exception. if it's me, maybe i can be in tears immediately when heard the say like your husband's speaking. but you have such a stronger temper than me. but a say says well: no couples without quarreling in the world. another say says well too: they can't be friends without fighting against each other.
wish your family happy! the same happy vacation!
- Reply rich
- i agree with snowflying. it's nothing serious, but a quarrel between husband and wife. as i see it, if there's something wrong with you, it should be your blaming after finding out he couldn't tell exactly what you were saying on the phone. he said he could hear clearly doesn't necessarily mean he could retell what you had said. he was watching tv anyway. so don't take things, esp trivial things, too seriously.
- Reply Catherine陈
- Thanks for giving me the following sentences :no couples without quarreling in the world.\\they can't be friends without fighting against each other. Your words make me feel I am a normal person . At least , I feel others won't think I am so unreasonable.
It is hard to behave properly every time . Self-control is so important and I should learn to adjust my moods calmly.
- Reply Catherine陈
- Is it easier for women to become irrational today? Sometimes I find it is so hard for me to shut my mouth . But it is useless to regret .What I can do now is to try to do better next time. I hope my horizons are as broad as yours . Thanks!
