A younger gent to visit a monk on one of a famous Buddhism mountain. He felt extremely pain because his girlfriend left him to marry other man. He couldn’t figure out why she made such a final choice. He thought his beautiful girlfriend would follow him in his lifetime because they have once loved so deeply so warmly so hotly even both of them have once felt each of them couldn’t live without another. But few years passed over, when they graduated from campus, his lover hadn’t choosed him as her marriage partner. So he felt very pain, heaven  collapsed, heart broken, with a helpless heart came onto the hill temple to seek his answer.

  The monk heard his trouble and painful telling, nothing said except taking out a water cup, passed him. The young guy held the small cup, felt puzzled, because he didn’t feel any thirsty sense. Then the monk poured boiling water into the small cup, water outflowed from the monk’s kettle into his small cup slowly by slowly, over the cup bottom, over half line, up on and on, when the boiling water reached nearly the top, young guy said: “It’s enough”. But the monk seemed no ears, continued his pouring, suddenly, the overflowed boiling water out the cup top, his fingers felt a sudden boiled heat hurt, the small cup falled down to ground, broken.

  Writing here, I thought of another words which is a father said to his son when his son left him to another city alone, the father said: “My son, you remember my words forever. In this world, nobody cann’t be replaced, nothing must be owned (没有人不可以代替，没有东西必须拥有) .If you view through this point, you will know it’s no matter in fact when your lover leave you.There is no the most love in the world. Love is only a sudden feeling while it will change with time and mood. If your so-called most love leave away from you, please wait for a while patiently, let time swash slowly, let mind subside slowly, your pain will be diluted. Don’t vision the love beauty excessively, don’t exaggerate the pain of losing love excessively too. ” (不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲)。

  Sometimes, you can’t forget and may not forget, but you must let go. Maybe you will let go when pain someday. (你可以不忘记，但必须放下。痛了，就放下了。)