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how time flies! i have to face that i'm not young , 27years old with single. my parents were so worry about me.i don't want to give them a call .yeah ,every time they 've asked me this issue and arranged blind date. it was so embarrassed. actually sometimes i also feel so nervous and think about what i want ? i used to think that i need found a guy who was complementary with me. in that case we can have a peace life, no need quarrel with the daily life.for example, if i'm lazy,,he will be deligent. if me temper is bad, he will be very patient.finally i found it's not workable.we can't agree with each other. just like "play the harp to a cow".you said this , he said that. it was not in the same level. there are lot of differents with outlook on life,values, ideology.and then i found sometimes quarrel is a good thing to speak out the dissatisfaction.it is a good love relationship if you can find someone can understand you and you know his very well. each other know give and take.there is always one thing to overcome another.
in those days i addict to a variety show "love battle". i saw some stories of lover . and find there is something wrong with myself. i admit i'm a forceful person. and don't know how to give compliments. more bark than bite. i don't know why i can get well along with my friends but i am so strict with companion. i'm so sensitivity . i can't imagine the future. if i can't change the bad temper , that will cause my future husband be cowardly and lack of confidence. i hope my husband will be give me power. when i feel nervous i can feel the power support me and push me move on. change myself first and hope we can find each other early. best wishes.
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- Reply laurendong
- That's no new story in China....
Best luck finding your soulmate, and hopefully your parents are more understanding.
- Reply douglas-baily
- Don't worry, 27 years old is still a very young age. trust yourself, you will be find a right man for marriage. It should be the right time and right place.
- Reply xingyue
- Actually, I also want to find my life partner earlier, and I am afraid of being arranged blind dates one day. The right person is unknown before he is confirmed and ascertained even though we have imagined many times. For temper, I wanna say each one has his own temper and character, and it's naturally not an easy thing to live together for two individuals.
- Reply Jason2014
- yeah, when we grow up and single, our parents will be worry about our marriage, they will say us about marriage and press us search for
target early every time they meet us or call for us. maybe you have been bored at every moment, but remember that our parents only wanna us to live a better life, Although it have been told many times, when you have married, they will worry about else. our parents will care else. Good luck to you ,that you will succeed.
- Reply feeling720
- thanks for your kind words.maybe the fate is not coming. i'll take care of myself at this time. and enjoy the life . make progress day by day so that i can support him and give him power.
douglas-baily: Don't worry, 27 years old is still a very young age. trust yourself, you will be find a right man for marriage. It should be the right time and right ...
- Reply feeling720
- sometimes i find just lack of courage and think so much reality life. also lack of security.when i meet the guy, i 'll observe and judge whether have any possible can get along with each other. the way of speaking. the train of thought. hobbies and interest. i find that it is hard for me to open my heart.i need he love me deeply first and then i'll dare to give. i know it is unreasonable. but i insist on it. for men, i think when he fall in love ,he 'll give his soul and he 'll take care of you ,your feeling, your thought.when you feel unhappy he'll unhappy and find a joke to make you relax .at least you know he is in your side and support you. i 'll marry with the men who love me deeply in that case the life after marriage we can find balance. if your love him more than he does. you'll find he always neglect you.
xingyue: Actually, I also want to find my life partner earlier, and I am afraid of being arranged blind dates one day. The right person is unknown before he is ...
- Reply feeling720
- we can't know the future life. but we can enjoy now and do whatever you like and do yourself . we can work hard so that can earn some material basis to assure live quality.
Tange: you felt what i felt ; the long way to change this ..
- Reply feeling720
- now there were more and more leftover person. we'll meet the pressure form the parents and social perspective. i saw a lot of stories about that marriage beacause the older age. it is so sadness.they are unhappiness. i have talked with my parents and said that if the marriage give me more pain than single. how can i accept . now i can take care myself and have a job and more freedom . can do myself .
Jason2014: yeah, when we grow up and single, our parents will be worry about our marriage, they will say us about marriage and press us search for
target early e ...
- Reply Jason2014
- yeah, Do yourself. And don't care too much about it. And you will be find your Mr Right very soon. After all, the person that will be accompany with you in your life.
feeling720: now there were more and more leftover person. we'll meet the pressure form the parents and social perspective. i saw a lot of stories about that marri ...
- Reply feeling720
Jason2014: yeah, Do yourself. And don't care too much about it. And you will be find your Mr Right very soon. After all, the person that will be accompany with y ...
hope everybody can have a happiness family.
- Reply xingyue
- These views also are in my mind, but they are criticized. It's said that we are just willing to be give but not to give forwardly. Maybe it is just lack of confidence for love, for marriage, so we protect ourselves from being hurt. Anyway, in a relationship, the one who pay more are more likely to be hurt.
feeling720: sometimes i find just lack of courage and think so much reality life. also lack of security.when i meet the guy, i 'll observe and judge whether have ...
- Reply feeling720
- totally agree with you.i find another reason. maybe beacause the guy who i don't love deeply. love is full of magic. it can give us power to trust someone.
xingyue: These views also are in my mind, but they are criticized. It's said that we are just willing to be give but not to give forwardly. Maybe it is just la ...
