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Last night, my neighbor couple quarreled again. l could hear their every word because the wife was really a woman of big voice. l have been here almost one year, but never met them. This couple often have rows. Every time they quarrel, their kid will cry. But last night, l heard some words from the kid. At the begaining, he/she did not cry, just beged for the end of the fight. But the couple did not listen to the kid. Then the kid cried. Later he/she cried loudly: "l love you two so much, why do you treat me like this. Both of you are liars. You promised me that this never gotta happen again." When l heared this, l was in tears. Did the parents not really realize that their behaviors have been wounded the child's heart so much? In the early morning, l was awaked by the mother's shouting and swearing, and the child's crying again...
l don't know why the couple decided to have this child. Just creating an audience for their war? lf you have no ability to provide a wealthy family for the kids, you must have the ability to give them a scene of great joy to let them grow up happily. If not, please please don't take them to this world. Be more responsible!
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- Reply snowflying
- dear, quarrel between couples is normal in most of adult marriage life. when we begin a marriage life , so more nice imagination about if, with the long time's passing and the more daily life rutines, most of couples step into a realistic status, romantic reduced, quarrel start,even due to a bit things. as my view, most of couples like so in our life. but facing a kid, a wise couple should be controled and stopped, because that's a big hurt to kid's growing and their little weak heart. only myself's viewpoints,hehe..
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- snowflying: dear, quarrel between couples is normal in most of adult marriage life. when we begin a marriage life , so more nice imagination about if, with the loyeah l gree with u so much. we can't have rows in front of children. it brings too much harm to the kids~
- Reply judyspace
- The parents war can make a strong impact on child.If you have child ,please give him/her a happy childhood.
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- judyspace: The parents war can make a strong impact on child.If you have child ,please give him/her a happy childhood.yeah, l also think so. l have no children yet, but already in my plans. So l accumulate some knowledges aboud babies~~
- Reply snowflying
- Jasmine-0913: yeah l gree with u so much. we can't have rows in front of children. it brings too much harm to the kids~but most parents forget this,especially they are quarreling, they forget there is another little man aside,hahaa
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- snowflying: but most parents forget this,especially they are quarreling, they forget there is another little man aside,hahaayes. one of my relatives was just like this. l witnessed the child was scared again and again.
- Reply snowflying
- Jasmine-0913: yes. one of my relatives was just like this. l witnessed the child was scared again and again.poor baby!
- Reply Haiena
- The problem could be so many couples getting married just to get the "married" status or to stop parents yanking or pressuring them to get marred. So many of my friends get married quickly because so and so classmates are getting married. It seems to be a crime to be single. There would certainly be quarrels and breakups because a couple living together can have a lot of friction. Without genuine love, the marriage would not have energy to go on. I myself would not marry anyone without love and commitment. Quarrels may be normal in a marriage but injurious or hurtful quarrels can cause deep scars in the relationship. Marriage is not something which can be hurried or tried. Don't jump onto the marriage bandwagon unless you know you know where it is heading or can endure the long journey.
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- Haiena: The problem could be so many couples getting married just to get the "married" status or to stop parents yanking or pressuring them to get myeah. l also think love is really really important for marriage. couples will live in harmony with one another and be sympathetic when love exist betweem them.
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- judyspace: I am also gonna to get a baby,good lucky for us.
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- lucyqian: what a cute baby ,a innocent person .an angel
- Reply lonelyme
- To take the pain out of marriages, i would like to share some jokes about marriage with you;
- A woman has the last word in any argument. Anything a man says after that is the begining of a new argument.
- What is the difference between a marriage and a war?
.... A marriage is a war in which the enemies can sleep together!
- Marriage is like a mousetrap. Those on the outside are trying to get in. Those on the inside are trying to get out.
- How can you make a marriage work happily?
.... Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a truck.
- A couple had been married for 45 years and had raised a brood of 11 children and was blessed with 22 grandchildren. When asked the secret for staying together all that time, the wife replies,
"Many years ago we made a promise to each other: the first one to pack up and leave has to take all the kids."
- A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband. A man never worries about his future until he gets a wife!
Have a good weekend!
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- Edelweiss: I hate all rows.me too. talking can solve the problems.
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- 异物: I deem horrible parenting as the eighth deadly sin.really right!!
- Reply Jasmine-0913
- gossip: the child should grow up feaceful,and parents must keep the promiseyeah. all kids need a beautiful atmosphere to grow up. they will be misled if parents set a bad example for them!
