I graduated from college in 2009, and got married last year. Recently, my husband and l decided to have a baby. Both of us are children lovers.

Yesterday, a college classmate sent me a message and discussed baby thing with me. I told her we had made this decision. She was so surprised. She asked if we had saved enough money to raise a baby. I said we have enough money to afford pregnant period expenses, hospital expenses, and the expenses of baby products. Both my husband and l are common employees. Our salary is not so high, but we think we could raise a baby now. But my classmate don't think so; she think raising a baby needed a lot of money.  She said in the message that the baby needed to attend many kinds of outside class in the future. The fee is really expensive. And she also said she would make that enough money, and then be pregnant.

Every couple has their own ways to raise a baby. Money is not the only way. I don’t know how much was her “enough money”, maybe 30 or 50 thousands Yuan. My husband and l haven’t that sizable sum of money now. And we can’t save all the money that was used to raise a kid, and then to get pregnant. I am afraid that maybe I have no ability to be pregnant if we got that enough money because we need many years, even many decades to save that sum of money. My husband and I are on the age of have a baby. All we want is a healthy and cute baby. I believe that if we love him/her wholehearted, we could earn enough money to raise him/her, just like our parents brought up us!