the year 2012 is to the end and 2013 is to begin . there are lots of words l want to say but l dont know how to begin . love , fear , lost , pressure , inferior , happiness . none of these feelings is absent in this year . though l work hard , but because l am lost sometimes l achieve little success . there are some words l want to share .
plan
the plan is very important . a guy could do little things in a single day , but if you plans carefully , go on doing , you could find that you have achieved a miracle before long .
for example , if you study english in other days , you might not master english in ten years . but if you persist studying english for four hours every day , l think one year is enough .
do you know that ?
the 75 most common words make up 40% of occurrences
the 200 most common words make up 50% of occurrences
the 524 most common words make up 60% of occurrences
the 1257 most common words make up 70% of occurrences
the 2925 most common words make up 80% of occurrences
the 7444 most common words make up 90% of occurrences
the 13374 most common words make up 95% of occurrences
the 25508 most common words make up 99% of occurrences
you see if you master 3000 words , you could handle 80% occurences . have you mastered 3000 words ? and could you say that you have mastered 3000 words ?
3000 words , it seems not very difficult for us to speak english fluently .but it is difficult to some extent ,you may remember some words and then forget some either in a single day , you must remember and practise them everyday . it is difficult for us the master 3000 words . l think l have only mastered no more than 1000 words . our dear moli or the admirable ly.identity might have mastered 3000 words . l like to read them blogs very much . but if you plan well , 3000 words are not very difficult for us to master in one year .
so the plans are very important . below l want to list some tips about how to plan well .
1, make a strategy for a long future , a specific plan for a single day . the reality is changeable , so you cant think over every details . so a strategy is enough . but a day is short , you could plan more specific .
2, study is only a part of life . you must mix the rest time and the study time in your today's plan ,
3, every achievement has a price . sometimes you must restrain yourselves from the enjoyments . remember only the time after hardwork is pleasant .
4, dont expect youselves too much . too high expectations would make you lost . if you lost , you would be like a donkey with eyes covered , not the horse to the distance .
5, it is always easier said than done . even the perfect plan still needs your hardwork not the nonsense .
usual mind
it took me a lot of time to think about why am still studying hard when most my schoolmates became lazy ? why was l so stubborn ? what could you get for your hardwork ?
here are some ideas about these questions .
1,what could you do if you didnot study hard as a student ? and if you study hard , why not try your best to get some achievements ? if you dont study hard as student , what could l do in school ? like my roommates playing computer games every day ? or sleep everyday ? but as l noticed , even if they sleep almost every day , they were not that happy . and for me , now l found some happiness in study , for example writing blogs here .
2, the pressure in the future forced me to study more in school . l am supposed to have a wife and a child ( l only want to have a child no matter boy or girl ) . l am supposed to raise them . now l want to comment about the virgin topic . lots of girls asked why should they have to be virgin before marrige . l want say lots of boys ask their wives be virgin before marrige . l think it is good for girls . why ? because the boys are influenced by the chinese traditional view which asked the women's fealty . some girls think it is unequal . but do you know it also requires the boys should take the responsibilities to support the familiy . it is very fool of a girl think that the virgin is nothing for a boy and this boy should take the responsibilities to support the family . oh , l digressed again ! and l want to make a perfect ending about this topic . if l were a girl , l would think about these items before losing the virgin .
how old am l ?
could this boy marry me in the end ?
could l be independent economic ?
is my desire too strong ?
l think if a girl cant be indepent economic , she had better not do such a silly thing . otherwise you would feel sorry .if you could be indepent economic , it depent on you . l am influenced by both the troditional view and the eastern culture . from my bottom of heart , l wish my wife be a virgin . but l think l could judge this issue rationally .
oh l digressed , l am very sorry . let's go on .
3 , l dont want to live the ordinary life . every day breakfast , taking bus , on duty , lunch ,on duty , taking bus , dinner , idle on the internet , sleep . this is whole day of almost chinese ordinary people .and they repeated these days and years . yes ! sometimes we should and could get some happiness from this daily life . and some one did have gotten from it . but l dont want to . l am afraid of these life . l want my life to be different , but how could l do it ? l believed that the miracle came from the the common life . only you could conquer these common lives then you are deserved to live a different life . perhaps some day if l realized my dream , l would regret about changing the ordinary life but let it be . now we are young , we should change my life by our own effort . shouldnt we ?
so much l have said but what is the matter with the usual mind ? you see ! perhaps your wife in the future may not be the virgin . you might regret about the tough life on the way to the success . why should we still give ourselves much presure ? what on earth are we still stubborn ?l still think the ultimative goal of life is happiness . remember the usual mind love and kindness could bring you happiness as money do . what could we do if we didnt study hard as a student . and if we study hard , why not try our best to get some achievements ?
let's call it a day .