the talk is some kind of art .  the daily boring life need art . and there are no wars in the modern society . the biggest contradiction is among people and people . and the  talk  full of art  is indispensable .

    to communicate with others , the confidence is a must .  if you lack of confidence , you couldnt enjoy the happiness in the communication .   there is no shortcut .  confidence is the shortcut .  

     listen carefully . listen what the others said . and then give you sincere suggestions and advices then .  to be a excellent talker , be a patient listener firstly . 

    try to be active in front of  others if neccessary . sometimes  you have to create some conversations .  you have to be positive to amuse others .  amusing others is to amuse yourself . 

    the last but not least . the most important thing is action . silence is gold .  most of our life , we should focus ourself in the career . the talk full art is only a decoration in my life .