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reviewing my attitude at work
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Some people like making comments on others or criticizing some social situations, but seldom review selves and behave well instead of kinds of complaining. I wrote this sentence here is still following the rule. It is always difficult to know yourself clearly and objectively.
I have been leading a free life for nearly 4 months and it is good for me to review my behaviors at work and go to the bottom of my personality. I just talked about the negative part today to share with you and remind myself for future.
- No complaining but to give the solution
We always have kinds of problems and difficulties in our work. Sometimes I feel tired of the long process, procedures and non-cooperation from internal or external team or customers, and start my complains. In a word there are many case which make you angry, annoyed and starting complains. Speaking out the complrains to your self or close friends can help you relax, and remember not to your boss. You will deliver negative image to your boss even though you have a right solution, because the boss always needs the solution and the result. The smart way is to listed the issues to the boss, give the solution and ask for the resource properly, then your image will be clear thinker, solution maker and being resourceful!
- No offending but to respect the boss
It is surely important to have a good relationship with the boss but it is not always easy. People have different personalities,habbit and evaluation standards. And the boss hope all the team members obey and respect him and work hard to deliver a good achievement which is helpful to the boss to grow in the organization. And the boss should recognize the team member and give more platform, opportunity and promotion. This is idea situation but in fact there are always issues between the boss and team member. The worst case that happened to myself was looking down upon the boss, and challenging the boss, even quarrelling on sormething. This should not have happened. There must be a good reason that she or he is your boss and you may not see the complete picture at your level. No challenging but to support the boss is the right thing, different suggestion will be welcome in private space.
-Always showing positive side at work
Showing positive side will be hepful if you want to go further in a orgnization.This will influence other people and help making more friends. Looking at the big boss in the company, most of them are always smiling to others and easy to get along with.
There may be lots of unhappy thing under the smiling face, but at the position they have to hide the negative side and try to infulence and encourage the team.
It is good model that we shall learn from, this is also professional behavior in the career development.
I experienced the above things and wrote here to share, there are a lot more and will continue. To review self timely is helpful to grow up. It is helpful for me, hope it is also to you guys.
Post comment Comment (4 replies)
- Reply IMNONARCISSUS
- Your article is helpful to me!
- Reply Jessico
- IMNONARCISSUS: Your article is helpful to me!Self-reflection is vital to our growth although it seems a little bit difficult. We have to give more space to ourselves and face our own, graually we may find out we have so much to improve. Your tips are really beneficial
- Reply Jessico
- Self-reflection is vital to our growth although it seems a little bit difficult. We have to give more space to ourselves and face our own, graually we may find out we have so much to improve. Your tips are really beneficial
- Reply snowflying
- wonderful, great!!! i think of a famous say: the biggest enemyof a person is himself/herself instead of others. your this blog just it!Tony. and especial like the first and the 3rd:"No complaining but to give the solution". i always hold this attitude, and i hardly complain whether in work or in life."Always showing positive side at work", keep an active attitude just my style and attitude too, life or work, myself or others, things or people, if possible, i 'm willing to trying with my biggest power.
