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How is real life?

569 views. 2009-4-14 19:41

The dialoges in <Friends> are always impressive and thought-provoking.

Monica said to Rachel:"Welcome to the real life. It sucks. But you gonna love it."

 

Initially I was puzzled. Have we been always living real life? Why the real life sucks? That`s the time when I was a little girl having my families under the same roof all the time, protected from hazards,considering the world full of beauty and goodness.

 

Gradually the society showed me its dark and corrupt side when I was firstly exposed the the world outside. I work hard but cannot make  gain equal to pay. I treat friends faithfully with my heart but they just take advantage of me. I tell them it`s a trap and be careful but they think that I fool them and disregard my advice. I just make a little mistake but my colleague will report to my boss secretly and exaggeratedly.......All these trifles hurt my heart and become a strong power to provent me from trusting and concerning about others. The world really sucks~!

 

Up till now, I begin to find out more and more the  friendly,the sincere and the dependable. I get to know that I will be rewarded sooner or later.People around will attend to me when I am sick.  People even we didn`t make acquaintance with will do me a favor  when I am in trouble. Although prestige and wealth are essential friends spare no efforts to help me with my study ,job and daily life patiently and generously.  At present it`s apparent to me that the reason why life is real is that it`s an evil as well as an angel.

 

World with the wicked only makes people feel hopeless and stay instead of moving forward .On the contrary, we won`t cherish what we have if there are only niceness left. These two sides are in perfect balance constituting our life.

 

Now I regard being a man and leading a life as luck and mercy. The future remains unknown. I still have a long way to go.

Post comment Comment (11 replies)

Reply Houston 2009-4-14 23:29
Um, there exist all kinds of people around you.
When one of my friends coming from Hunan first came to Shanghai, she met with some tricky shopkeepers and some halfhearted people. So she thought Shanghai is a no good city. But when she stayed longer, she gradually found the other side of Shanghai. People here are not so bad as she thought. It's just because of the different life style. They are not halfhearted but show their love when people are really in need.
I just wanna tell you the saying which I like best: Nothing so bad but it might have been worse. No matter sad or happy, that's life. So keep walking~
Reply RachelBear 2009-4-14 23:53
Houston: Um, there exist all kinds of people around you.
When one of my friends coming from Hunan first came to Shanghai, she met with some tricky shopkeepers
Thank u for ur understanding and advice.
Frankly I was disappointed by snobby and deceptive classmates in the college. How did they become such people before exposed to the society,I always wonder.
But I won`t be affected and I am still the one who I hold on to all the time.
Reply Houston 2009-4-15 00:21
RachelBear: Thank u for ur understanding and advice.
Frankly I was disappointed by snobby and deceptive classmates in the college. How did they become such people
Actually, you make me think a lot.
It's no use complaining too much about others. Only after I entered the university did I find so many weird students. Soooo weird. Initially I pointed out their wrong thoughts and wanna correct them, only to find me naive.
I agree with you that you should not be affected by them. Not everyone is kind and they may even take advantage of your kindness. Just hold on what you think is right. That's enough~
Reply Sally_Fan 2009-4-15 08:57
Um, life just like what you say, but how to treat with it will lead to a different result, and I hope we all can live affirmatively.
Reply Summer1022 2009-4-15 09:31
After reading this article i think much much,yeah,sometimes this society shows us crule and sometimes some people are deceptive,etc,so it is the society that we need to study protecting ourselives,i just wanna say that we are growing up in this real/unreal society!
Reply RachelBear 2009-4-15 10:26
Sally_Fan: Um, life just like what you say, but how to treat with it will lead to a different result, and I hope we all can live affirmatively.
Enen~I also believe in the saying that life styles depend on people`s attitude.
Rachel won`t be defeated.I`ll strive to be positive.
Reply RachelBear 2009-4-15 10:40
Summer1022: After reading this article i think much much,yeah,sometimes this society shows us crule and sometimes some people are deceptive,etc,so it is the socie
We grow up in it and must adjust to it.
Reply daisydaisy 2009-4-17 16:15
wonderful article. we shoulf treat the others with our real heat. whatever they treat us,our heart should not be changed.
Reply RachelBear 2009-4-17 17:11
Thx for ur appreciation.
What happened recently triggered thousands of thoughts in my mind.I used to suspect the way I treat others,the mode I handle things, only to make it more clear that I am still who I were......
Reply Houston 2009-4-18 09:49
RachelBear: Thx for ur appreciation.
What happened recently triggered thousands of thoughts in my mind.I used to suspect the way I treat others,the mode I handle
You know what, I almost did the same thing.
I used to treat others well, only to find them take it granted and sometimes even blind to my kindness. I nearly have changed myself into a selfish guy.
But I don't. Those who turn blind a blind eye to my goodness is just a small part of people. So I just leave away from those people and I believe my kindness will be paid back by most ones.
You will be paid back too and you deserve it~
Reply RachelBear 2009-4-19 21:41
Houston: You know what, I almost did the same thing.
I used to treat others well, only to find them take it granted and sometimes even blind to my kindness. I
so moved~ Having someone go through the same things,get the same feeling and can understand me is not easy indeed~

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